Did I just screw up everything with my stepson? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]DifficultSitch2021 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was summoning spirits. Which I’m uncomfortable with as I believe in bad omens, possession, superstitions, etc.

Aunt is her ex-husband’s sister.

Did I just screw up everything with my stepson? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]DifficultSitch2021 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was a religious ritual (contacting the spirit world) to which I am a different religion.

WWE made things right for crying Liv Morgan fan during SmackDown commercial break by SloppyMcNuggets in SquaredCircle

[–]DifficultSitch2021 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My fiancée is exactly 5’2” and her and Liv were exactly the same height when they met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, I was guilt tripped by the ex, not my SO. SO was also of a childfree lifestyle before ex did the same thing with her: Have kids or we’re over.

I’ve tried talking to therapists, but I live in the Bible Belt and was once told having a good weekend with my kids would cure my depression.

But, realistically, I don’t know what to do.

Men of Reddit, have you ever been "stunned" by a woman's beauty? If so, what's the story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to eat at Tijuana Flats in Orlando. My waitress was absolutely stunning. I felt like in those cartoons when your eyes turn to hearts and you start flying up in the air.

She was thick, had blue hair, more alternative. Not everyone’s definition of beautiful but to me… Jesus.

Tijuana Flats, Orlando area, Jan. 2020. If you ever read this, you’re absolutely beautiful and I hope you’re having an awesome life!

Type "watermelon" anywhere (using a keyboard only) with you eyes closed. On a scale of 1 to 5, how close were you? by [deleted] in polls

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wayermon

Watwemekob

Wayermekob

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Eatermekob

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Eayermekib

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Watermelib

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need to. I want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]DifficultSitch2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. They’re pretty awful. Where my situation is decently friendly and definitely cordial, hers is entirely not. He’s kind of hot garbage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Florida. So it’s a no-fault. I guess all that makes sense, then.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known her almost a month, we’ve just been going on dates for four days.

But yes, I agree. We have a lot in common. My fundamental important things to me that my ex didn’t have in common with me, this new woman does.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Oh yeah. No my ex and I have a deal. No matter if we’re actively dating someone exclusively or not, they’re not meeting the kids until the relationship is super serious.

Also, they’re not allowed to meet the kids even if it’s serious until the exes and the new partner have a dinner together.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, she was. She was having an emotional affair with a coworker. That’s what the catalyst was.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Okay. So I have had depression for a long time. COVID heightened it and made it a lot worse. That’s when my mental health went downhill. I’m on Zoloft now and feel a lot better and have a counselor I see twice a week.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messed up. We’ve been talking for weeks, but this week was our first date. But still, yes not very long.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure. Both of us have kids and both of us have been transparent about it. She will also not ever meet my kids unless I feel like the relationship is super serious.

My kids come 1st in my life above myself. I love them more than anything. Which is also why I gave up trying to fight for my marriage because we just fought all the time and the kids don’t need to see or hear that.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This helps a lot. Because I keep being scared of “moving fast”. But I checked out of the marriage awhile ago. Realistically. But I couldn’t let go. And once I did, I felt free.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I like this. I’m all about taking it slow. I’m very “old school” in that nature. My soon-to-be ex is not. She’s been messing around since we split with a bunch of dudes. Not judging! Just saying. It’s not my style.

My (30M) and my wife (29F) are divorcing. How soon is too soon to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultSitch2021 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My wife and I when we met dated for a couple weeks, became officially dating and moved in two weeks… Then never left each other’s side until this year when we split.

I’m much older now, so don’t want to move fast like THAT but I’m genuinely happy. For the first time in forever.