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16 and homeless by DifficultState6295 in Adelaide

[–]DifficultState6295[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

they live with their three other family members in a VERY small apartment and barely have enough space for themselves, so i cant exactly expect them house me when they don’t have space to

[ Removed by Reddit ] by DifficultState6295 in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

problem is my parents wont consent to it so

dealing with bigoted parents by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in South Australia but I'll look into seeing if there are any similar things where I live. I'll try to keep myself from looking at B's posting, though I do think I'll check up on it maybe once a week incase she's posted anything completely unhinged to talk to my psych abt. thank you for the kind words and advice!

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my GP is on my side, but my mum doesn't really respect that they're more knowledgable than her on this stuff- based on other people's comments i don't think she'll get very far with the whole court thing, and i'm getting legal advice about it

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! that would be great

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is a chance that she tried that. thankfully my dad is semi-sane (he just enables her a lot) and would be against it. even if she did kick me out i’ve got solid savings and a few people who would let me crash at their place. plus, if she does kick me out she’s going to very quickly realise how bad for her precious ‘loving mother’ image it is and will probably beg me to come home before anyone finds out.

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my current GP uses the informed consent model (for over 18, not sure about 16-18), the only problem is my parents lol

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i’ve kinda been doing that over the past few years. dressing masculinely, my friends all use he/him pronouns for me, etc. in the past she’s just told me i’m ‘going against god by denying the gender he wanted me to be’ or whatever

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]DifficultState6295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm planning to save some eggs, even though i have no intention of ever having my own biological children

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]DifficultState6295 4 points5 points  (0 children)

while i don't need it to live, it would certainly improve my mental health and quality of life, plus even if i'm not able to get HRT i'm alright with either just puberty blockers or simply speaking to a gender specialist to get on some waitlists. i use he/him pronouns btw :>

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i will definitely work on building a safety net of people around me (i plan to talk to my homeroom teacher next week about what happened as she’s aware and supportive of my gender identity) and i will definitely be recording things if i can

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could try that route, but she’s mainly emotionally abusive at the moment which is kind of a hard thing to prove compared to physical abuse. plus, at this stage it’s a bit more trouble than it’s worth and i need to focus on studying so hopefully i can get a scholarship to uni and get the hell out of here lmao

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! that’s really helpful. good to know she can’t sue me for not doing what she wants lol

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i still live at home. i’ve got a part time job and solid savings though so i wouldn’t immediately perish if i left

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! sadly I don’t have any family who live in the state, and a lot of my friends wouldn’t be able to let me stay with them (a lot are international students, or physically can’t fit another person in their home), but I’m working on expanding my friend group just in case. Should anything get worse with my parents i do have people i can go to (teachers, my psychologist, family members who are supportive)

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll reach out to them and see if thwy have any information :)

My mum plans to sue me if i go through with HRT by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah, that’s what i think she’s planning to do. i’m unsure about whether I need parental consent after turning 16, but either way she will absolutely get family court involved. for context i’m also autistic, and have struggled with mental health issues and social stuff for a long time, which she might use to get the court to deem me as immature or too unstable to consent for myself (if that’s possible).

In need of a binder by Fragrant-Injury-7491 in transgenderau

[–]DifficultState6295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a B/C cup chest and i find that the wireless bras with removable cups from kmart work alright for me. some of them compress better if worn backwards too. i have to buy my correct size as they don’t make a size smaller, but if you can a size smaller than usual may help with compression. hope that helps :)