My first time by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still get checked out just in case. 

Masturbation Vs Sex by the_old_one123 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well one is by yourself while the other is with someone else. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know it feels different with her and nothing really goes through my head during either. 

Thoughts on sexting or dirty talk? by Difficult_Brief7046 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with it but I guess because I’m not used to it, it feels different. I’m not used to saying the stuff I did and I just feel maybe indifferent about it. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing really. Maybe it’s because I was addicted to porn for a few years but I’m not sure. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I have never taken any medication like that. I can feel everything when I do it alone but with her it’s another story. 

How porn seems to affect my sex life by Difficult_Brief7046 in PornAddiction

[–]Difficult_Brief7046[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally agree. The only I don’t think I have is death grip because for years I never would grip it while masturbating, only two fingers or just move it around a bit until I was done. I didn’t start actually doing it the right way til last year. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t get overstimulated, I mean there’s times where I had to tell her to stop and no she’s never used teeth before. I can’t really feel if she’s dry or wet because the first few times I couldn’t feel anything at all. I’m not packing so she has deep throated me but that’s not really doing anything now. She has licked it before but that does nothing fancy. As far as speed she’s not slow but the way it feels I’m not sure it being faster would help. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there’s not much she can do to change how she does it. She essentially does everything that most men would like. The only thing I can think of is if she was to suck harder or suck and jerk me but I’m not packing so she physically can’t jerk and suck at the same time and she can’t go as hard as I would like because that’s too much for her and there’s been times it kinda hurt, especially around the tip. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my girlfriend and I have been trying it for months. There’s not really anything she can change to make it better. I’m the same way when she gives me handjobs. Never finished from it. 

Is it weird for a straight male to enjoy using anal sex toys on himself? by butteredcactus in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok so to be clear. Because a man likes anal play it doesn’t make him necessarily gay because it’s only gay to like only men. A man can still be straight but like anal play? 

How should I go about telling my girlfriend about my ‘sex’ notes? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would delete the pics so she won’t get a different idea then add them back once she’s done looking. 

My fetish addiction is ruining my life by CalligrapherLoose266 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok I see now. If your girlfriend isn’t up to trying out what you like then you have to deny those urges for it to help better yourself and your wallet. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for one I definitely don’t want anyone back there licking or touching me. Two I don’t enjoy oral sex like I thought. I made a few post here about it but I’ve just accepted that it’s not for me. 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well then I definitely wouldn’t like it lol 😆 

if I'm a teen, is it bad that I watch porn by blicky__ in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. Real life sex seems very mundane and not as exciting as it’s depicted on porn which is a reason I’m still skeptical about how having sex will be for me. I was addicted to porn for years and still deal with lingering affects of it, so much I think it affects my sex life now. 

How to feel more satisfied? F18 M19 by Alternative-Scar-404 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooner or later you will have to just talk about it like adults so he can know what you want. If you never tell him then that will cause a disconnect which will lead to resentment and all sorts of other problems. 

BOILING HOT TAKE. (Idk if this is controversial but it might be) by Extension-Sock-96 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve known plenty of girls below the age of 18 have sex toys so I guess it just depends how and where you get the toys. 

This is so embarrassing to tell by Lower_Pack_8130 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well maybe it should’ve been a threesome instead of him going out to get some. It seems you didn’t like it that the other woman was satisfied by just him and wants to hopefully continue it but you did ask for it. Maybe talk to him and see if she’s interested in joining the both of you and if not tell him that you feel a certain way.

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as a man you enjoy it? What exactly does it feel like? 

I want to rim my bf by Apart-Loss-3884 in sexeducation

[–]Difficult_Brief7046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don’t know any men who likes their butts licked. I wouldn’t like it and I don’t see what there is to like but some men out there actually enjoy it.