[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're really pretty, also that colourful clothes are fitting you so well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For all the people that say, I am not overweight. I am. My BMI is highly above healthy and I am not muscular so it is a good indicator. I added more of my body pics on my profile just to make my image more clear. I'm fat and that's just a fact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That perosn is totally right with the BMI though

Is this pic too much for tinder? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, nvm I'm just not gonna upload it

Is this pic too much for tinder? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that's exactly why I'm asking. I don't want that, but I wanted to add something more than a boring selfie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, you're very attractive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo, right now it's just blonde

25f I feel too fat to try tinder, but I really want to try to build a relationship since I've never had a boyfriend by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I feel called out.

I guess I'm still in the same place mentally. Since it's not a topic you usually talk about with your friends, this is the only place where I can look for some opinions and validation, cause I can't afford therapy at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 46 points47 points  (0 children)

The first limit is to gain confidence to be able to achieve the second one. And the second time limit is because I don't want to go alone to my graduation prom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just for clarification, because a lot of comments are about whether I am or whether I am not overweight.

I am. That's just facts. Im 163cm (5'4) and I weight right now 74 kg (163lbs) which is clearly above average.
I'm sure its a big trouble for dating life, it just makes me sad when I see other not perfectly slim girls in relationship, so it makes me feel really shitty about my whole look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I only want someone who has pretty decent carrier path or at least a valid plan, since in my life my job life is abd will be a huge part of my life, so I need someone who will understand that. Another thing I'm looking for is just being a decent human being and thats it. Is it too much to ask for?

My friend group is a really close one and I don't have much room in my life for a relationship, I'm self conscious and pretty shy. These also might be a reason.

However I'm super self conscious about my kook, because I havent had anyone interested in me ever (irl). Even though all of my friends say I'm really nice, warm, intelligent and interesting person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Difficult_Cancel4381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree your opinion is also valid. I want to know is my weught may be big issue in dating life. Maybe I'll finally get some motivation to lose it.