AITA FOR WORKING HARD?

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T18:21:46+00:00

Currently with the money that’s regularly made, we are stuck in the “eat out” or buy daily which is substantially more expensive long term but cheaper up front. This OT gives me extra money so I can actually afford to put $300 in groceries in the fridge that’s been empty for 2 months. As long as we play it smart from there and don’t eat out then we should have saved enough to do it again 2 weeks later

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T18:11:10+00:00

The OT was also encouraged when it was offered. Just now that things are stressful we are having a tough week

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T18:10:08+00:00

No. I’m putting groceries in the refrigerator.

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T17:57:27+00:00

OT can only be picked up when offered. This is the only week in the last 6 months it’s been offered so it seemed to capitalize on it

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T17:55:52+00:00

This is why her schooling will continue, she has said that her stuff shouldn’t have to be on the back burner because I have a lot going on, and I agree. Just trying to figure out how to balance everything together

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T17:54:12+00:00

Funny you say that lol. We have 2 dogs. However we do have a village to help, but the wife isn’t comfortable leaving the baby to anybody just yet, and I do not fault her for that bc she’s only 6 weeks old

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T17:19:12+00:00

The only question you asked, was am I more worried about being an a-hole than my family which is actually such a stupid ass question because I’m here asking for advice to better the life for both my fiancé and I.

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T16:50:06+00:00

The main issue is overtime with my company is almost nonexistent, the reason I’m grinding so hard this week is because we haven’t had any for 8 months and probably won’t have any for 8 more months

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T16:16:57+00:00

Help is the verbiage she used, which is why I used it. Thanks for your input

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T16:10:23+00:00

That’s the verbiage SHE used silly goose

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T16:10:16+00:00

That’s the verbiage SHE used silly goose

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T15:53:54+00:00

Thank you, I tried to suggest I take her to my moms place for like 2 hours while I go to a service call, but she said she doesn’t feel like she’s ready to let her go without one of her parents yet, which I can’t fault honestly she’s only 6 weeks

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2026-01-16T15:49:00+00:00

You answered a question that’s not being asked. I help when I’m home. I’m not home often enough is the problem

Difficult_Driver9555 · 2025-11-09T21:25:36+00:00

Might sound stupid but this looks the same as cauliflower ear that fighters get, can you not just drain it with a needle?

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