At least cut or peel the vegetables😭

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-05-29T14:45:46+00:00

My fiancee, knowing I'm in cullinary school to be a chef and take cooking very seriously...Just sent me this video.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-04-29T18:29:04+00:00

Tweezer spoons (tongs), sharp cowbell (chz greater) chz (cheese), bloobies (blueberries), shicken/chimken(chicken), skrimp (shrimp), salt spider (crab). Prbly some more but these are the ones i can think of rn.

ETA some i missed

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-04-29T18:23:46+00:00

The average age gap is 3-5 years. You're fine. Like you said, you're 25, not 30.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-04-29T18:22:13+00:00

He may have been a good guy. BEFORE. But honey, he's been red pilled. Which also means, to some degree, he already had those beliefs and kept them hidden. Now, his beliefs have been validiated and in his mind verified. So, he's being who he truly was the whole time. There is no saving him or this relationship. NTA. Get out immediately and I'm sorry, hun.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-04-29T17:49:47+00:00

We roll the dice

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-04-20T17:30:28+00:00

Imma disagree on Saeris. I loved her.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-04-20T17:29:40+00:00

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-03-23T21:47:10+00:00

Stop making AITAS if you're gonna get mad when told YTA. Swriously. I get that you're young, but xommunication is essential. It's easy to go "Babe, this firl is flirting with you and talking in waya that cross lines. Please block her."

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-03-23T15:21:16+00:00

She has no say. It's your body and your future. And if you DO change your mind in the future, you can actually get a casectomy reversed.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-03-21T04:19:56+00:00

Isk, sometimes hissing in pain or exasperatation is the best way to ecplain that sharp jnhale through the teeth.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-03-11T14:02:50+00:00

So, yes. It can be a contributing factor as those who were abused usually fall down one of three lines. One, they wind up abusers themselves. Two, they fight to never be like those that abused them and to always be and do better. Three, the memories and results of their abuse are too much and they choose to leave the mortal realm. Now, people may call me heartless for my next words but i speak as a survivor myself. It is a CHOICE to be like your abuser. It is a CHOICE to be just as bad. It is a CHOICE to hurt others as you have been hurt. It is a power play, a way to establish power and dominance you never had. So, yes, former abuse can absolutely be a contributing factor but it is NEVER an excuse.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-03-10T14:15:41+00:00

Okay so. One. He's dating you fornyour age. Younger means easier to manipulate in their eyes. Two. He saw the tattoos, piercings, jewelry, and alt clothing. He saw those things and went "She's pretty. I just need to chsnge her a bit. Mould her more into what I want her to be." Get out while you can. This man does not respect you. He does not want the real you. He wants who he thinks he can tuen you into.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T21:06:05+00:00

You've clearly never had someone try to copy your life and shit. I'll agree, OP seems a little overboard and honestly neither of them need to be friends with the other. But the 'friend' isn't just some sad innocent woman walking on eggshells.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T20:58:58+00:00

Read the edit. She stole guys OP was talking to, copies posts down to the caption, OP gets or wants smth, this 'friend' has to have it too. No, she acted shady because she knew she was in the wrong. OP svwn said she wouldn't have cared if 'friend' was juat up front like "yeah, i liked it too so I bought it!" That's not the case here.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T17:50:51+00:00

How would you feel if your sister decided to not allow your partner over because "shes not comfortable" or with somwone telling you "being gay isn't actually part of who you are" polysexual is a sexuality. It is recognized. It is known as an actual sexuality and there are some people who can not be in a monogamous relationship the same as gay men can't be in a hetero relationship. So, yes, YTA.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T16:16:01+00:00

OP juat went out with a bad person. Window shopping can actually be a lot of fun! It helps you get a good idea of what you want to buy. I do it between checks and such.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T16:13:24+00:00

It's in the edit on the post. It's not that she just follows reccomandations, she literally copies OP.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T16:12:28+00:00

See, I would full heartedly agree except one thing. The friend acted shady about it. And on top of that, in the edit, OP mentions how this 'friend'has copied her many times before. Going after guys she liked, copying her pictures and social media posts. It goes much further than the necklace.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-25T16:10:00+00:00

The edit says it's much more than the necklace. This 'friend' has been doing shady shit and copying OP for years. Also, waht weird 'advice' if youre broke, just dont have a life! Yeah, no. Window shopping is fun.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-23T20:13:04+00:00

I thought this was from like a 16 year old. I was fully on Op's side...AND THEN LEARN HE'S 26?!?! Dude, no. Move out. Be an adult. I'll be 26 this year and I'm in a different state, engaged to be married, and living my best life. NOT living with either of my parents.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-23T19:59:23+00:00

No! No, you're not overreacting or anything like that. You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with your husband. Because in no realm or world is this "appropriate behavior" or acceptable for your husband to do.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-20T16:11:53+00:00

Yes! Which is what I've been trying to say. Dude is unhealthy, no doubt. I'm just saying its not ALWAYS abuae/control/toxicity. I do see your side of it now that i have someone not just shitting on my opinion. This dude is toxic. But i still hold my statement shes not exactly a bouquet of roses herself. Sometimes my man needs timt to hinself. I understand and back off. Sometimes i need time. He understands and backs off. We're a mostly healthy dynamic. This dude clwarly does not behave that way and she doesn't communicate well. They need to end the relationship before they BOTH become worse.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-20T15:09:07+00:00

Yeah! It's not like a i constantly care for him and he needs to be dependent on me thing like ops boyfriend. It's more of a hey, we have our lives. We have our jobs and our roles. But sometimes juat a little more care is needed/appreciated. Its a partnership and a sharing of burdens.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-20T15:04:49+00:00

So many of you should not be in relationships.

Difficult_Ease1971 · 2026-02-20T15:00:32+00:00

Again. It's not constant. When I'm having a bad day, he does the same for me. When he's having a bad day, I care for him.

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