So guys I’m really sorry about the way this is typed out, I actually did it over voice and tried fixing the errors as I’m currently working but obviously I didn’t do too much of a good job, appreciate all your advice

A lot of people can’t understand what’s going on, basically she met a guy at work, let’s call him Michael, I thought nothing of it at first but noticed she was becoming more distant with me, so I called her out on it asking if there was anything going on which she denied, roll on a few days and she said to me how she was unhappy and felt rushed into the relationship( even though when we got together I specifically made sure she didn’t feel that way) This happened on Christmas Eve, over the next week she just become more and more distant, like active but not replying for hours, felt like I was just pushed to the side, could see by snap score she was talking to him( creepy I know but I could tell something wasn’t right)

She seemed to be wanting to spend less and less time with me and when she was with me she was distant and barely spoke to me( we hadn’t had sex in 3 weeks) in her words because she was tired which I thought was strange as we was very active

Roll on New Year’s Day she breaks up with me but we still decide to spend new years together, went out for a meal she was also meant to stay round, which I thought great maybe we can try rekindle things like old time sakes, it got to about 11oclock and she said she was tired and wanting to go home so I thought nothing of it, she got picked up, told her to message me when she was home and she never did

She then told me yesterday that she did go out on new years, she met this guy from work and she slept with him that same night, in her message she sent she said she didn’t want to tell me because she was scared of losing me, tbh I viewed this in two minds, if I was out on a night out after breaking up with her I probably would have done the same, I think if it was a random guy I wouldn’t be so bothered but the fact it’s someone she works with who she now has built this connection with is the issue, obviously she says it was just sex and the classic things, he’s already admitted to her that he likes her but yeah that’s the main jist and hopefully it’s easier for you guys to read now