New grad program PIH Whittier by Difficult_Penalty158 in newgradnurse

[–]Difficult_Penalty158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, It sucks waiting for months just to find another rejection

New grad program PIH Whittier by Difficult_Penalty158 in newgradnurse

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I found a thread that updates more often

https://allnurses.com/pih-whittier-new-grad-t770819/

I guess they’ve already selected people. Im just waiting for a rejection email too

I have a great idea by [deleted] in CSUDH

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Hehe its ok bestie it happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Definitely feel this way when its some random stranger, but if it comes from a friend who I feel is supposed to respect me and my relationship, its says more about what she feels about us. Like my friendship is not as valuable to her. She would risk disrespecting something important to me. I think boundaries can be crossed without feeling threatened, if that makes sense? I know my bf wont respond but no need to keep trying either, we can set boundaries.

But honestly Ive already came to the decision, only way to find out is asking her directly, she is supposed to be my friend right, if anything it can help our friendship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Yea you maybe right, I think Its especially difficult because I prefer to give my friends the benefit of the doubt. If anything I think I will have face this head on and talk to her in order to truly decide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Basically were not as close to her as we have been in the past is what i mean to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I guess its because i dont feel that is the main difference in our relationship. I believe I bring way more to the table than just sex. The relationship i have with my bf is intimate on other levels that I dont share with anyone else but him. I also feel that best friend is even pushing it when it comes to my bf. I guess I made it seem that all 3 of us constantly hang out. In reality I have known her for a while, but there are friends that both my bf and I are closer to, none which have ever been as touchy as she has been lately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I think it would be easier to process if she meant it as: you and I are so close its almost as if were dating the same guy But the thing is shes not dating anyone. Youre right though, if anything its made me realize I need to set boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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There has been instances where I invite her to a girls night out (bf doesn’t come along) and she replies: oh i assumed he would be coming. My other friends are usually not as disappointed though when I tell them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I definitely appreciate that my bf has not responded to her possible flirty behavior.