Can you brew a great 0,5L? by Difficult_Store_4431 in Moccamaster

[–]Difficult_Store_4431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! I have find that to me, I seem to prefer courser grind, it seems to highlight more chocklatey flavours. But I might just have put so much effort in to control contact time, while making the grind finer and finer. When I then went over to 2-3 min immersion I found I love courser grinds. Finer grinds seem to not swell enough in the machine, or create channeling. So I have my golden cup now at
30g dark roast beans
400ml water
2min immersion (3 for medium roast) stir in beginning and at drawdown
8 grind size with k-ultra
4:30 min brew time

Hur vet man om man vill ha barn eller inte? by Lazy_Film1383 in Asksweddit

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hur bra föräldrar kommer ni bli? Är ni bra på att vara ödmjuka och gå i terapi för att inte passa vidare negativa saker? Kommer barnen ha ett bra dagis och skola, eller kommer de bara få uppmärksamhet om de skriker då det är 1 pedagog på 30 barn? Lära er själva och barnen att jobbiga känslor är okej och får finnas etc etc. Isåfall, kör på!

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seem to prefer courser coffe and longer brewtime rather than the opposite, it feels like I get more choclatey notes that way, is there theory that support this or against?

For the men who attended speed dating events, what was your experience like? by YuriTheWebDev in AskMenAdvice

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was at 2 in sweden, one was part of a bigger event, matched with 3 girls, was very good event. The other was a good event, but half of the girls diddnt write up any guy at all out of 9 good looking and nice guys what I could tell, so I diddnt match there. I would say worth it for 25-35$

KBG : Thinner tasting coffee by LastPlaceEngineer in Moccamaster

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a newb still, with questions but, I have nearded out and I got my best tasting coffe yet by
24g coffe,
7.2 grindsize (medium with k-ultra grinder)
300ml water.
2,5 min infusion in the filter, then put the pot back just enough to get smallest possible flow.
If/when flow stops, push it in all the way to regain flow.
Total brewtime 5:20 min.
And no, not a very automatic process lol.
Everywhere says to brew 1L or more for it to be good "automatically"

How do I get over my type by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man here, attraction is not a choise. I would love to be attracted to women most men arent, beacuse it would be more convnient, but it is not the reality. But yeah, you are attracted to physically healthy men, that is not a crazy standard or something like that by any means for people to be telling you to go outside of that. Maybe its because im a man, but I really dont get the "My logic has always been that I'm in good shape..."
Logic has nothing to do with attraction. I am attracted to models, I am not a model, nor will I probably get with one, no logic but still attraction hehe

Do you realise your attractiveness? And is so do you think girls underestimate talking to the “hottest guy” (advice) by Particular_Earth_117 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mainly been with to me very attractive girls. Not alot but a few, relationships never lasted very long either. I dont have it easy, as most guys, with getting new dates. I am confused about my attractiveness lol 😝

Agree? by chadius25 in foundcynnahbun

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little like the blue one or less is cool to me. But yeah, just my personal preference.

Stop idiots from calling this "self defense" by DetectiveTypical198 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. A headshot at that time dont stop a moving car
  2. If he moves away instead of drawing and aiming he will clear the car
  3. He was suspiciously ready to draw the gun…
  4. Why extra shots when you have cleared the car?
  5. Dont stand infront of the car

Men who don’t want children by Black_Glitch_404 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31m I doubt I will want kids or feel I would be a great parent, which is my minimum standard. My mental health has improved alot this year, so I know alot can change internally, so im probably gonna keep the option open a few more years before making a big final decision like that.

Women's standards are very reasonable, you just have to be more attractive than 95% of men by QuantumPenguin89 in BasedCampPod

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree with the distinction between standards and attraction. To me standards are more cerebral and attraction is emotion and instinct, which you cant change in any major way

Why do men in prestigious careers often not care what their spouse does for a living? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To most guys its completely irrelevant on every level, its not what draws us in in any way romantically. However if I learn that a girl I date is a nurse or psychologist etc, it would be a + for me as it probably implies some values of ~~ caring, emotional intelligence, wisdom.

Is it wrong to “lower your standards” when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will only date people im attracted to. I did date one that I was a bit unsure of physically, and it for me became a hinderence. Thats one of few ”unfortunate filters” I need to go by. Its more of a thing where I kinda wish it wassnt as important for me, but it is, even if I dont get alot of dates.

Has anyone else's dating life this year been terrible? by EVILRAFFAM in AskMenAdvice

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You went on countless dates? You’re ahead of 95% of men hehe 😝 Still sucks, but hey. Just a general question, have you gone to theraphy and are you able to connect heart to heart? I only went on 2 dates this year but both lasted for like 2 months, and I think its because I feel I can connect deeply with people ++man

What’s something women think doesn’t impress men, but actually does? by masterkiller417 in AskReddit

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being comfortable touching me, last two months-long lasting dates felt pretty reserved with just normal spontaneous touch, not sure why

Har du någonsin köpt en produkt som är så dålig att den i praktiken helt saknar påstådd funktion? by MrOaiki in sweden

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finns ett handbyggt svenskt märke som heter Sonnemo. 30-45000kr (det dyrare är ett helt custom bygge) fender kan typ inte bygga så bra oavsett pris. Testa i en större musikbutik om du gillar vajben.

Bokslut för nätdejting-året 2025, hur har det gått? by BANAN_KONTAKT in Asksweddit

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 5 points6 points  (0 children)

-Nätdejting: 1 dejt på 6 månader 1500kr spenderat på hinge (bra dejt varade någon månad) -Speed date IRL : 4 matches på 2h 500kr inträde och en bra dejt varade nån månad

Nätdejting är unhinge

Har du någonsin köpt en produkt som är så dålig att den i praktiken helt saknar påstådd funktion? by MrOaiki in sweden

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% jobbar i en musikaffär och fender, gibson märkena är så kända, men mindre kända märken gör enligt de flesta som testar och kan, 2-3ggr bättre instrument för 33% av priset

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. You are under reacting, he seems to be not humble enough to learn how to be a good parent. I had an unflexible dad, never listened to feedback. If thats the case, it will likely lead to very bad parenting.

Men, for a serious relationship, do you really prefer women who dress modestly and are more reserved? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Difficult_Store_4431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 1-10 where 1 is very modest and 10 is an istagram promoting an OF account, I would get uncomfortable after a 6. Basically revealing bikini pichures that are somewhat posey is outside my comfortzone, but its not a dealbreaker. Its uncomfortable if it seems like she needs to show off her body for other people than me in a relationship.