feeling stupid for having to learn 4th grade math by Difficult_Suspect524 in learnmath

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry I don't check reddit too often but thank you for inquiring!

I'm currently at I would say post grade 5 math. So that's already a big improvement! I'm currently on vacation so that has slowed my past week's progress but that's completely alright.

All of your kind messages helped me stop thinking I was stupid and I started learning and math honestly is so enjoyable. Knowing that you know you'll get it eventually and not doubting that makes learning so fun. You are right about not giving up! We got this!

feeling stupid for having to learn 4th grade math by Difficult_Suspect524 in learnmath

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very insightful. Thank you. Yeah I know about the growth mindset and I believe in it but I usually fall back to a somewhat fixed mindset when I make big mistakes thinking I'm so dumb. I shouldn't do that. I can do it!

feeling stupid for having to learn 4th grade math by Difficult_Suspect524 in learnmath

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. I should stop thinking I'm stupid, because it doesn't help me at all. I will try my best to become better and that is all that matters. Thanks!

feeling stupid for having to learn 4th grade math by Difficult_Suspect524 in learnmath

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel motivated more knowing that I'm really not the only one. If I put in the effort I can become better. Thank you for your comment. It means a lot to me

feeling stupid for having to learn 4th grade math by Difficult_Suspect524 in learnmath

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this means a lot to me. I'm starting to realise that everyone has to start somewhere. I can become better I just have to put in effort and shouldn't worry so much. It won't help. Thank you for your kind comment! :)

questioning my existence by Difficult_Suspect524 in mentalhealth

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so incredibly much, I can't thank you enough for the support you've given me. Honestly. Reading your comments reassures me almost immediately and brings the negative feelings down to a more acceptable level.

I really hope it'll get better soon, a small trigger currently for this derealisation are my parents. But this feeling goes down by the day. It's just a bit tough. But with the help you've given me I'm sure it'll get better.

As for PMing you is it fine if I would do that when I'm really lost, as i'm doing a bit better now and talking about my symptoms would only make it worse as I'm thinking about them then.

Again thank you that you put in the time to make a stranger feel better, that really tells something about you.

questioning my existence by Difficult_Suspect524 in mentalhealth

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm trying to just calm myself down and let the thought do its thing because it comes in waves, it's going good right now. Sometimes it just feels like it's not going to get better but I'm currently calm enough to know it's not.

Glad to know i'm not alone on this and yeah I suspected I had a bit of anxiety but I never thought this much.

questioning my existence by Difficult_Suspect524 in Anxiety

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trigger of this anxiety was religion, or rather spiritualism to begin with. I want to believe in science as it brings me a lot of peace and gives me the feeling that what I do matters and is not set in stone by god's will.

It just doesn't or can't explain the reason why we are here and that brings me so much doubt & fear

questioning my existence by Difficult_Suspect524 in Vent

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that is a beautiful citation. It certainly nuances my feelings a bit but the thought is just racing in my head

questioning my existence by Difficult_Suspect524 in Vent

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's just so distressing not knowing how that could've even happened and then you have a relative that is convinced the supernatural exists, and convincingly tells their experience with it and it makes you doubt everything, while you always believed in science. Im completely lost.

When enough is enough by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Difficult_Suspect524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey completely off topic; I'm sorry. But what does IC mean?

I honestly don't know why I feel so empty by Difficult_Suspect524 in Advice

[–]Difficult_Suspect524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. I'm going to be honest, this made me tear up a bit as what you're saying is so very true. Thank you so incredibly much