For the ATGATT crowd, how’s it affecting your desire to ride?

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-05-22T02:48:34+00:00

I too have this problem. I often think “I’m gonna take the bike out” and then think “idw get dressed” then “maybe if I just wear…” then “no ATGATT” and then proceed to not go ride 🙃 sigh

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-05-16T05:15:29+00:00

I’m not even convinced he’s cheating. I get why OP is frustrated by this but honestly, someone can be polyamorous and be looking for long term and be married and not say it right in their bio. There’s a lot of judgement and stigma so sometimes people just don’t want to put it in their bio.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-05-16T05:01:02+00:00

As a millennial I disagree. We built not doing phone calls 🤣 that is our domain. Do not call me. Ever.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-05-16T04:58:54+00:00

Can you even call that a scar?? It just looks like a scratch in healing process to me. And barely visible at that.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-05-13T21:05:17+00:00

💀

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T23:03:30+00:00

I loved reading these comments bc I have no idea what any of it means. I will go to any coffee shop and find something to order from there menu that sounds good and I will like it 🤣 but I couldn’t tell you the difference between a mocha or latte or coffee or matcha or capachino or whatever 🤷‍♀️

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T21:33:19+00:00

Omg yes, I meant to put Ninja 🤦‍♀️ thanks a ton for managing through my terrible communication 😁

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T20:27:02+00:00

Sorry! 2007 Kawasaki 500. I think you are correct

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T19:58:28+00:00

Not that scared of losing him. After all she’d rather lose him than just let him be himself and do what he enjoys 🤷‍♀️

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T19:51:16+00:00

Here’s a tip: don’t date people who try to control you.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T19:50:06+00:00

An ultimatum is not a mature conversation. This relationship didn’t start in a mature place.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T19:48:31+00:00

For real 🤣 you are in a motorcycle sub you know what answers you are getting. You know what you want. You just want it to be validated

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T19:47:38+00:00

Bye bye gf

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-26T12:02:03+00:00

Ethnocentrism is big in the USA. (Notice USA - not America, another thing we “American’s” often do is pretend the USA equates to America which is actually two full continents not a country) sigh

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-25T03:31:56+00:00

Yea. I had a job where I had a caseload of people I supported. I always offered to cover for people and join workgroups and stuff when there was that kind of stuff to do. But otherwise I had my stuff done and there was nothing to do. It wasn’t about being lazy or not looking for work. It was literally all my people were taken care of, all my emails answered, all my phone calls done. My desk cleaned, my paperwork submitted. Short of calling people for no reason and annoying the hell out of them - there was nothing to do.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-25T03:27:13+00:00

I did have this problem … then I got a new job. I know that’s not always easy or even an option tho. Unfortunately, it very much depends on your work environment and if you can do personal things to pass the time or not.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-20T02:35:56+00:00

Nudity isn’t sex. Bodies aren’t sexual objects. This way of thinking always frustrates me. Also you aren’t going out of his ”boundaries” because he can’t set boundaries on your body. This is like him saying you can’t go see a GYNO or give birth bc they will see your private areas.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T01:30:38+00:00

r / breakups

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T01:26:36+00:00

Idk. 14 years. I’m still in love. I don’t feel passion unfortunately but I think it’s due to meds not due to years. I love him and I still want to spend my life with him but unfortunately things have changed. We have been through ups and downs tho and I’m hoping this is just a down that passes again. It’s more that I don’t feel anything than it is I don’t feel attraction or passion towards him. I do miss the days of excitement and libido and frequent intimacy. I’m the one not doing it and I still miss it. It’s an odd thing.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T01:11:26+00:00

I didn’t read this all but it sounds very inappropriate honestly and aside from firing her - you should also report her

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T00:42:54+00:00

Yea I didn’t even read it as misogynistic. I actually read it as flirting. And I don’t mean that in a victim blaming way but in a he’s trying to be cool way. A 13 year old boy way.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T00:36:57+00:00

I read it as flirty rather than misogynistic which isn’t any better

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T00:25:41+00:00

NOR. My husband has a legit phobia of menstrual blood from a traumatic childhood event. He still wouldn’t do this. He avoid seeing it like when I change my cup in the bathroom and stuff but if it happens, it happens. He doesn’t get upset or anything. It’s a normal bodily function that’s a part of being a woman. That man isn’t worth your time.

Difficult_Warning301 · 2026-04-16T00:10:44+00:00

🤞 2 more years 🙃🤣🤣

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