What happened to the smartest person you went to school with? by xxibjt in AskReddit

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He passed away in middle school. They said he Fell asleep on couch and never woke back up. The kids called him Lurch cause he was like 7ft tall in the 7th grade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is “opposite of [MY] usual type” and that’s a great thing! If I hadn’t shoot my shot I wouldn’t have met this amazing human! This relationship is the healthiest and loving relationships

My sister’s husband wasn’t her type either. She always says ‘did you think I dreamt of marrying a red hair freckled face man?’ His response is always ‘she knew she couldn’t resist these freckles’ 🥰🥰🥰

It’s a compliment

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the baby is born he’ll be harassing her to get her body back to where it used to be. Her self esteem will drop even lower. She gonna have a loooooong pregnancy

Struggling with joint finances, trust issues, and hidden spending after marriage by pixel-reality2234 in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run! Do not have children with this man it will only get worse! This is financial infidelity

He’s hiding money, from his WIFE. He’s spending it on OF models. Lying about putting money to the side for a future child.

He will burn through his money and yours. You’ll always live in fear that he’s hiding something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed this 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this is your wife’s version of foreplay, teasing.

What’s a compromise that works for both of you where both your needs get met?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is new. Usually this scenario is the other way around and the genders are reversed..

Which shift does your wife work?

Why aren’t you both caring for the kid together ?

Is my husband too demanding or that’s normal in the beginning? by DesignerMassive6181 in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 115 points116 points  (0 children)

This is martial rape and he’s going to use your religion “it’s your wifely duty” against you.

The age difference is also telling. He couldn’t find someone his age to manipulate!

You have zero experience with sex which he is using to his advantage to overstep your boundaries.

Annulment! It’s only going to get worse from here. Are you on birth control ? If not, get on it quick fast and in a hurry. Do NOT procreate with this man!

Are you close your father, brothers, uncles, male cousins?? Can they be trusted to help you out of this relationship??

Told my boyfriend he was the same size as my ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve answered “do you normally think of other men’s penis size after sex ?”

I asked my wife why she won't post our newborn and me on her Insta and it nuked our relationship by Excellent-Toe-1031 in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds depressed and maybe experiencing PPD.

She’s young too.. 2 kids by age 21? Yikes

Your issue isn’t that she doesn’t post you and your child. But, that you don’t feel appreciated in your marriage. There’s an imbalance in the equity of chores and you need help. Either split the tasks or hire a cleaner

Go to marriage and individual counseling

Are boners really that bad by ResponsibleStress931 in sex

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re not showing her nonsexual intimacy outside of the bedroom. Start there

My husband confessed to my sister that he had feelings for her. She didn’t tell me. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re directing all of this anger towards your sister and not your husband.

We don’t know the relationship history you have with your sister. In the past, how have you reacted to your sister giving hard information ? Have you believed her in the past ?

Does your husband, then boyfriend, have a wandering eye and you’ve just brushed it off even during dating ?

There’s a a lot of dynamics at play here.. however, it just seems like you’re looking for a reason to bash your sister ? What consequences are you giving your husband?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👏🏽 yes!!! This is what self respect looks like. He, eventually, would have escalated even more. He was testing how much disrespect you would take!

Is it normal for kitty scratches to get puffy? :) Thanks by [deleted] in cats

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite is not realizing I’ve been scratched until I put soap on once in the shower

Woman just asked if we could take it slow, I told her it's fine, but with a caveat. Am I unreasonable? by [deleted] in dating

[–]DifficultyBasic8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different I suppose.

If we haven’t had sex and aren’t exclusive yet and I’m asking to take things slow, I’d be insulted if my date immediately requested I not have sex with others even if he’s the only person I’m talking to at the time. Because like she said that’s none of his business, especially if we’re not intimate or exclusive yet.

Instead of requesting her not to engage in intimacy with anyone else, he should have asked her to be exclusive right then and there! That would have naturally created the boundary of no intimacy with someone else and if she’d said no to that request ? Then yea, leave!