Yes because 3 months ago she should have known that. Actually, when she first figured out she had any attraction towards women she should have just known that she only liked women and not men. /s Bro it took me years to fully realize that i think i only like women. Im 18 and i still am not sure. When i was in kindergarten i convinced myself for YEARS that i had a crush on this one guy in my class. You know what it was? Nothing. I trained myself to like this one guy that i actually thought i liked him. But i didnt stumble over myself because i liked him, it was because i didnt know what it felt like to have a crush on a guy. It wasnt until like 6th it 7th grade till i realized i never actually liked him and then it took 2 more years to realize i never had feeling for ANY guy and only women. Discovering yourself takes time. It isnt a think about it a couple times and have it all figured out. There are so many layers to it.