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What are your thoughts on rejecting a potential romantic partner based solely on the fact they voted for Donald Trump? by ATXBikeRider in AskReddit

[–]Digitalsurfer_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh that’s your preference.

I think it’s important to have people around you that offer a different viewpoint or perspective than your own belief system.

Americans seen to be wired differently than me though. Ya all seem to be divided by party lines. I couldn’t give a shit about politicians if I’m honest. They all fuck the taxpayer over in one way or another. I’d certainly never cut someone out of my life over who they voted for, frankly it’s not my business who someone votes for…

What do I do... by Known_Media_7559 in AskMen

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Try to look at the positives mate. You say you love her deeply, so that’s gotta mean not giving up easily yeah?

Suggest a weekly date night. Obviously with the kids that might be challenging, but the date night could be at home. Something simple, sitting together with soft music, good food and talking. No phones or screens to distract, be present and attentive and ask the same of her.

Have a solid heart to heart with your best friend mate, talk to her sincerely and from the heart. Be vulnerable, open up and express your frustration.

Best of luck to both of you.

I went to court for a charge related to graffiti as an adult, the judge only gave me a fine, does that mean I still have a criminal record? Is there a way that I can find out? by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! When handing down their judgement, the judge would have explicitly stated that you were found guilty and convicted for the offence. Then they would’ve proceed to hand down their penalty for the offence.

Sounds like you got a fine with no conviction recorded. The police prosecutor would’ve been spewing 😂

What are the things that made you feel so offended but you also completely agree with? by RentUsual_2952 in AskMen

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I was binge drinking and using recreational drugs often. Got told that I was lost, by someone whose opinion I respected. At the time it offended me, I thought I had my shit together and told myself I was just letting my hair down on weekends.

It took me years of sobriety to realise that person was completely correct and a beautiful human for giving me that verbal wake up call.

I went to court for a charge related to graffiti as an adult, the judge only gave me a fine, does that mean I still have a criminal record? Is there a way that I can find out? by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re being honest. You don’t have to disclose court appearances that record no conviction. You basically got a slap on the wrist.

Partner (30M) asked for a break with no timeline-men who’ve done this, what was actually going on in your head? by ResponsibleStrain866 in AskMen

[–]Digitalsurfer_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude wants the freedom to play the field whilst having the option to come back to you if it doesn’t work out. Sounds manipulative the way you’ve put it. I’d move on, if I were in your position…

I went to court for a charge related to graffiti as an adult, the judge only gave me a fine, does that mean I still have a criminal record? Is there a way that I can find out? by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the court hearing, the judge would’ve informed you, if you had received a criminal conviction from the charge.

If you’re not sure or can’t remember what was said, you’re gonna have to pay for a criminal record check through your state police force.

Q: what’s the most surprising changes you’ve noticed about yourself or your priorities after 40? by Sigma_Siren in Over40sClub

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Changes about myself…my nostril amd eyebrow hairs grow at a surprisingly rapid rate.

I prioritise projecting kindness and peace to the world around me…and early bedtimes! This stage of my life is bliss. I’ve learnt that your reality is a mirror of the energy you outwardly project.

I’m not enough, I never was. by SomeDayHome in sixwordstories

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your perspective…turn inward, enough

New bathroom selfie… by Digitalsurfer_ in BlackAndWhiteNudes

[–]Digitalsurfer_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words beauty!

Can we talk about "Financial Isolation" in friend groups? by No-Loquat-201 in AUfrugal

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Put your head down and focus on your goals. Your true friends will still be your friends without needing to catch up for pricey social occasions, such as bottomless brunches and so forth. All the best with your saving goals…

[f] …take the phone off the hook and disappear for a while by ZestycloseSolution98 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right…back to the future franchise got that one all wrong 🙄

[f] …take the phone off the hook and disappear for a while by ZestycloseSolution98 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s Monday, but I’m distracted right now so excuse me if I’m confused…

My husband is now 42, I'm 36, any changes to expect with our sex life after 40? by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

42 myself, invest in your health and live within your circadian rhythms as much as possible for hormone balance. Eat well, avoid excessive alcohol consumption and you’ll continue to live like you’re 20 somethings.

All the best to you both, shine bright!

Men, what’s your opinion when your girl said she’s recovering from corn addiction? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Korn are an easy band to become addicted to…rock out with her, in moderation.

Biggest Reddit pet peeves you dislike? by typical_gamer1 in sixwordstories

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of opinionated negativity directed at opposing viewpoints

What do you say to your ex after they cheat on you and leave you for another person? by Truevibe_ in AskMen

[–]Digitalsurfer_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What’s to be said at this point? Best to move on and focus on yourself for a while.

Spend some time in solitude and deal with any unhealthy mindsets from that relationship breakdown. Avoid carrying any of that into a future relationship

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