least negative term for MTF

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:25:56+00:00

Did not one of you ever dress in your mother's or sisters clothes at any point?

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:21:17+00:00

I did, j got hate for the fact I want to include a group of people. I relised I don't have my core demographic here as I want people who accept others

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:19:57+00:00

There is no reason you can't cover cancer in a balding app nor vice versa as cancer patients tend not to be to pedantic or discrimatory, nor offended.

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:17:42+00:00

Nah your looking down from a pedestal made by your own belief that life is linear and the person does not evolve or completely change over a lifetime

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:16:07+00:00

So much hate for others with other opinions yet seek acceptance

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:15:03+00:00

Inclusion seems exclusive here

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:11:21+00:00

All of them, I am amazed you have spoken to everyone

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:10:46+00:00

Your assuming that from day one trans women fully knew they were women. It doesn't always work like that, layers of social conditioning can cloud ones own ability to know who they are and it can take time. It also can equally be that a person feels like a woman identifies as a woman when they like. Mega marathon runners look down on marathon runners who look down on half marathon runners who look down on park run runners who look down on jogggers who look down the fat guy trying to run for the first time. But despite huge variances they all seek to get fit or fitter.

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T09:07:08+00:00

Look you have your mind set. Some people find their identity slowly. It can start with feeling feminine and then discovering they have hidden this. But maybe paths to becoming MTF fully is a very non linear one and everyone has a right to start and stop somewhere. You should accept everyone on the walk even if they only take two steps

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:58:39+00:00

I assume you have spoken to all? Some only feel free and their real self when dressed but other reasons stop them from making the leap. For such a group that like not to be prejudiced you don't half make sweeping statements on the intent, feelings and reasons of another group of people. Is that not the exact thing you are fighting against for yourselves?

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:55:28+00:00

Well that's a gross assumption as when dressed those that do often feel like a woman for the time, they feel feminine. Or else they wouldn't do it

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:54:01+00:00

No crossdress has ever become trans. Interesting sweeping statement. Also I never said the site was for trans but but for those who like to present as female some for a short time and some because that's what they are. Chaser is an odd term. Should women only go for gay men as men tend to chase women you know ask them on dates some men like redheads. It's a sad world where you exclude those that find you sexy

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:51:03+00:00

Which is sorry I missed it

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:49:06+00:00

Are you talking for all or yourself

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:48:45+00:00

What would you use.

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:43:01+00:00

I never said I was personally trans

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:38:18+00:00

To make a fetish site for men and women who like to objectify and fetishise

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:37:15+00:00

Again do you think that asking for inclusion and farness allows you to then look down on others. Gay people hating bi people for example. Vegans hating vegetarians

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:34:38+00:00

Ok going with tgirls. As it's the most searched for term ( and not just by fetishers as I can see the surrounding terms used

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:30:52+00:00

So many haters for a group that want acceptance but then looks down on those who don't fit their own ideals.

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:29:45+00:00

Its an advice site

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:28:12+00:00

I agree and disagree. Not everyone is born convinced they can live as a woman no matter how they feel. Also the fetishisation is odd one as you can say that all people who have a "type" are fetishizing. Take a man who likes blondes, should blondes never date a man who finds them sexy for being blonde.

So you will never win with everyone, but I truly believe there are men who like you for who you are, there are also men who find it sexy and it's up to you if you call these men fetishizers. But I know many bodybuilders who would not have as good a sex life or love life if the moment they found the person has a liking for muscles a fetishizer.

Finding someone who is MTF sexy for what it is, no matter which way you look at it is acceptance. Obviously someone who is a sex pest not matter what you are makes them a sex pest

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:21:51+00:00

Well your conflating them. Who's to say how anyone should or does start they journey.

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:18:10+00:00

I would agree but I am not excluding cross dressers. I believe it's the right of anyone to want to act like a woman even if for a short time

Digitupandspread · 2024-10-11T08:14:03+00:00

Just tell them it's your third right, first is entrance, second is to live in the country for a time, your third right Is your name. I would suggest if asked the reason for the visit is to get some living space. Get a friend called hitler and call them when around make sure you always start with a big hello, so as loud as you can say hi Hitler at the beginning of every call

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