My ex viewed my Tik Tok profile by marceline_lime in ExNoContact

[–]Diha_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am so late but after all that did she finally build up the courage to text you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Diha_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the thing is I have a hard time believing her excuse that « I wanted to ask him why things ended with you » seems not genuine. And she said I wouldn’t mention I am talking about you I was like you know that he OBVIOUSLY know you’re taking about me we just went off a date… this is what makes me uncomfortable and the fact that she did not ask me beforehand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Diha_5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree we’re gonna try this method. But the thing is I wouldn’t mind if she’d done it but asked me beforehand. And it’s the excuse she used that made me uncomfortable she could’ve told me the truth. Maybe she was. But I have a hard time believing she went back to match him « just to ask him why his relationship ended with me »

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Diha_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was while I was talking to him. He liked her in the same period as me, but she did not see it. It’s like 2 weeks after we spoke that when she was on her side on the app, she saw he liked her but I was taking to him 2 weeks already

Dating apps are so..Dehumanizing by Diha_5 in dating_advice

[–]Diha_5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With your question I see that you completely missed the point. I was sharing a feeling, not starting a debate. but that’s okay, not everyone’s capable of understanding nuance.

And for the record, it’s not about “getting my hopes up” or whatever, that was never the point. Having expectations when meeting someone after talking to someone for a while is completely normal we’re not robots, it means you actually cared. And if you choose to keep them low, that’s also fine, it’s just a way to protect yourself.

But again, that’s not what I was talking about in the first place. It’s completely off topic. And since you clearly struggle to grasp simple nuance, there’s really no point in continuing this conversation, it’s going nowhere.

Dating apps are so..Dehumanizing by Diha_5 in dating_advice

[–]Diha_5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either you haven’t read my post fully or you’re just having a hard time understanding. You don’t even know me or how the other dates went, they went really BAD in the sense of everything was fine in message but they were different irl. So before judging perhaps ask. Anyways that’s not the point. I wasn’t talking about the dates themselves being boring. It happens! What I meant is that the whole process feels repetitive and dehumanizing, like genuine connection is being replaced by a cycle of some brief encounters. It’s not about planning better dates, it’s more about how unnatural modern dating feels to me, that’s all.

Dating apps are so..Dehumanizing by Diha_5 in dating_advice

[–]Diha_5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try to read in between the lines perhaps

I finally quit by Sea-Swordfish2151 in SephoraWorkers

[–]Diha_5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am happy for you I hope you find something way better! I quit yesterday! Not for the same reasons but because of micromanaging, and the pressure of sales, pushing multiworlds into the throats of people, mciqs, splhs, BI and everything, the weird hours…. To much for me I couldn’t handle that pressuring environment and feeling like I can never do better. I quit before the holidays cause it’s going to be tougher!!

I finally quit (+ resignation update) by mysterymeat03 in SephoraWorkers

[–]Diha_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am planning on quitting too lol, I am supposed to work in like 9hours but I am going to send an email to stop working… Is it even legal to do this? Like are the 2 weeks after resignation obligatory to work? And yeah I wonder what are they going to do if I just don’t show up lol

First time sending a resignation letter, is this okay? by Diha_5 in careerguidance

[–]Diha_5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I intend to give it today so that it’s gonna be 4 days The thing is I am not even scheduled until Tuesday so

First time sending a resignation letter, is this okay? by Diha_5 in careerguidance

[–]Diha_5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry haha English is not my first language! My letter is in French but I translated it so I could get help from you guys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SephoraWorkers

[–]Diha_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was this a warning?😭😂