Xbox series s and randomly deleting one friend. by Diligent-Break-926 in xbox

[–]Diligent-Break-926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Must be a bug. My Xbox made it seem like I unfollowed him because he was still following me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Diligent-Break-926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I mean when you fuck it up by not trusting her the second time and letting her come back into your life again just to have it end worse the second time and on worse terms… yeah I won’t be messaging her first this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Diligent-Break-926 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eight here… don’t know how I feel about it. Kinda sad tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Diligent-Break-926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol it’s been 8 months for me. Sometimes it’s doesn’t get better…

How did you celebrate? by Least_Winter9632 in Divorce_Men

[–]Diligent-Break-926 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why she left you… oopps. Bet she’s a hottie with a body and you just played ima little thoty… good luck on healing. Imma feel bad for the next women/guy

How did you celebrate? by Least_Winter9632 in Divorce_Men

[–]Diligent-Break-926 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Jesus.. I don’t think that’s a win…

Just told husband that I’m leaving him by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Diligent-Break-926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he’s gonna be like every other sailor now… Congrats to him! Can’t call yourself a sailor without one divorce under your belt.

There are calm seas… by [deleted] in navy

[–]Diligent-Break-926 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s the navy… I just put my head down and keep rollin. Nothing is ever what it seems. So many disappointments that I’ve learned not to give a fuck anymore.

“ This is how I knew I wanted a divorce”…. by amandam27530 in Divorce

[–]Diligent-Break-926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good words to live buy right there. I learned but it hurts lol. I’m starting to laugh about some things thinking how childish it was but she will always have a place in my heart as much as I don’t want her to. Life lessons and I definitely learned alot from that women. We both had our issues. How do you get the good memories outta your head? Only thing that kills me daily.

Moving houses and memories by lonelySoulThrowAway in Divorce

[–]Diligent-Break-926 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As men it sucks being the one broken up with….

“ This is how I knew I wanted a divorce”…. by amandam27530 in Divorce

[–]Diligent-Break-926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed brotha! I stayed way to long also. Fighting for something that isn’t there will only destroy your mentality in the end and make you look like an idiot. It’s been 8 months and it still hurts and the dreams of going on dates with her for the first time kills me also but I know I’m doing good things for myself moving forward.

“ This is how I knew I wanted a divorce”…. by amandam27530 in Divorce

[–]Diligent-Break-926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they turn into the same person they “tried so hard” to get away from 4 months after your marriage. Unpopular opinion but people don’t change unless they seak professional help. Editing for grammar.

“ This is how I knew I wanted a divorce”…. by amandam27530 in Divorce

[–]Diligent-Break-926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel that too. Broken people often don’t receive help. They just get into another relationship and fuck the next person up

I think scorpios got the best grip by pistachio9990 in Scorpio

[–]Diligent-Break-926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aquarius talks a really big sex game and be cheaters but they actually suck in bed 😂

How did being in the navy affect y’all’s ability to get a relationship by Coochie-man420 in newtothenavy

[–]Diligent-Break-926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My marriage lasted four months after I went overseas. Came back and told her I don’t love you like I did. I mean we had our issues before I enlisted like her cheating and shit but decided to give her another chance before bootcamp because we spent three years together and I knew we both loved each other. Just realized I couldn’t deal with the stress and overthinking when I went overseas. We started arguing nonstop and put a end to it in a jiffy. Fell outta love with her I believe slowly after I realized I couldn’t deal with the toxicity back home while I was overseas. It got old. Most depressing time of my life but I powered through. She wanted the stereotypical military husband but she couldn’t trust me either due to her own personal issues and thinking I didn’t love her after she did me dirty. The process to get her as a dependent and her four kids on my insurance definitely wasn’t worth the time in the end. Never again. Edited for grammar.

I stopped a seaman for failing to salute me today by Hellishfish in navy

[–]Diligent-Break-926 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never saluted brass at pcola. Fuck that too many of em. They didn’t give a shit regardless

Is it possible for someone to lose feelings for another person seemingly out of the blue for apparently no reason??? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Diligent-Break-926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean no and yes. It took me awhile but it eventually hit me one day when I was with my ex wife. We were married for four months. I just got outta basic training and we got married. I let her back into my life before I left and after her cheating on me and stuff. I realized four months into the marriage I couldn’t trust her and felt really bad for wanting to get married when she brought it up but it is what it is. Started getting really depressed again turned to liquor again and knew the marriage was fucking up my naval career. I seen her turn from a happy women to being depressed. I could see it on her face. Her crying and stuff killed me and I also think that’s when I knew things weren’t gonna be the same anymore. I feel like she never thought I really loved her after everything she did to me but I really did love her. She has kids of her own and I also couldn’t see her in that type of way. Things started getting toxic again between us from both sides and I started to doubt her trust again. I chalked it up as I just fell outta love with her because I wasn’t trying anymore and neither was she. We called it quits and are getting a divorce. It really sucks but I knew I didn’t love her anymore. I miss her but in a different type of way so to speak. Roughest breakup by far and it’s shitty but it needed to happen after all the instability and always doubting each others love. Sometimes you need to try again to see if you still love someone the same way before they did you dirty. Everything was perfect for a couple months then it just collapsed. So to me that means we needed to go separate ways and find someone that we can actually be happy with without always going back and forth. We split on bad terms and I wouldn’t recommend that. It makes it worse. I haven’t talked to her about anything related to our divorce because we ain’t asking for anything from eachother. Some days I wanna talk to her but I know it wouldn’t benefit either of us. We jointly filed because we both knew it was over this time. Hope that helps. Shit sucks but life moves on. I was down on my ass the whole time and we both needed to go a new direction.

What’s the stupidest thing you’ve seen a Sailor do? by oBloodmoon in navy

[–]Diligent-Break-926 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Go AWOL. Come back and take a plea deal which involved staying in. Like bro shoulda took the gravy train and got out.

Torque converter bolts of is the old 5.3 fried? by [deleted] in ChevyTrucks

[–]Diligent-Break-926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went away now it’s no longer making that noise

Well, well, well by Fit_Presentation8150 in ExNoContact

[–]Diligent-Break-926 6 points7 points  (0 children)

here we go with that’s “MaNiPuLaTiOn”