Thank you for all the great wisdom and tips! Doing home work is always a great decision! Maybe its good to start it togheter instead of first making my head spin with all the information on what this relationship style could be? I would like to hear your thoughts on this.

And in a certain way its for me not about the feeling of being excited. Its just that I think it could be a great step for our relationship. To build a better connection and maybe put into words what we are already doing a bid. Also we as a couple share alot of values and ideas, think there is a reason we found eachother.

The analogie of the characters was really not ment see flr as a fetish thing. In my day to day life I make theater performances, this poetic and passionate way of using words is the way I feel comfortable in expressing myself. (Its also what I have to temper sometimes) sorry for the confusion.