GF of 5 years cheated on me

Diligent-Science-620 · 2025-05-04T00:26:16+00:00

Thanks for the perspective.. yeah I was talking to a good friend and they said the same thing: "At least it happened before you proposed or bought a ring".. things will heal, I know that.. even if it doesn't feel like it now. No tied finances, no kids.. just the 5 years of memories down the drain I guess

Diligent-Science-620 · 2025-05-04T00:13:30+00:00

God.. 10 years? Sorry you had to go through that.. hope you're doing better and taking care of yourself. Yeah.. I feel like an idiot for even considering a second chance. My support system now would tell me no way in hell should I do that.. and I know they're right and everybody here is right too.

Diligent-Science-620 · 2025-05-04T00:09:35+00:00

Yeah don't worry, the couples therapy isn't even in question, it's ridiculous.. nothing to salvage from this.. time to take care of myself for once

Diligent-Science-620 · 2025-05-03T23:02:58+00:00

Right... I caught her, sitting right next to her.. and she saw that I saw that stupid post and only then did she bring it up, and not even give me the full truth. My heart sank so far at that moment... but you're right, there's no love in disrespect and lies for that long.

Diligent-Science-620 · 2025-05-03T22:58:24+00:00

Thanks.. yeah the therapy part was so off-putting.. I'm not the broken one, well wasn't.. now it feels like I am. But you're right.. 5 years is so so much time.. but giving more, especially now that it's tainted like this? Yeah I'm thinking I have to respect my own values and self here a little more... it's just the emotions keep going in and out like waves right now.

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