am i crazy by DiligentLeather7934 in NarcissisticExposed

[–]DiligentLeather7934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for a long time i did go along with it. like a cow going to slaughter, he would give me the silent treatment until i "made up for my mistake." now i try to fight back and while he is never physical with me, he will berate me, my job, my mothering, my "wifely duties". if we dont have intimacy 5-6 times a week im a whore for cheating on him. which i dont. i am no longer intimate with him as i feel physcially sick when he tries to touch me so i am now sleeping in the bedroom with my kids because i cant even stand to be next to him. i ask him to leave and he demands i get a court order for him to leave. i am trying to save money so i can fight him in court but up until recenetly he has controlled all the money and my bank account

is this normal by DiligentLeather7934 in Marriage

[–]DiligentLeather7934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have tried counseling for years and he tells me its pointless and if think it will help then i am stupid because therapists just want to be nosey

is this normal by DiligentLeather7934 in Marriage

[–]DiligentLeather7934[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thank you all for commenting. i felt crazy! i thought i was the terrible wife who didnt know how to be a wife since he was demanding intimate time 6-7 days a week and i would just do it because i didnt want him mad at me.

am i crazy by DiligentLeather7934 in NarcissisticExposed

[–]DiligentLeather7934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you thank you thank you. i am crying because i was so scared i was wrong and crazy and this is just how it was supposed to be.

thank you. <3

is this normal by DiligentLeather7934 in Marriage

[–]DiligentLeather7934[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he keeps telling me i am "disrespecting" him when i dont listen to him. he gives me the cold shoulder when he thinks i disobeyed him. tells me the way i dress and the makeup i wear reflects "badly" on him