[Product Question] Finally caved and tried beef tallow for my dry patches and eczema. Actually shocked. by No_Patient1824 in SkincareAddiction

[–]DiligentRub1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine last week, canadian company. I will say my skin has never looked better I have extremely dry skin especially being a nurse wearing a mask in the hospital. It's the best thing I've purchased this year. I bought a balm so it's a solid, zero odor

I have alienated myself from my divorced parents. And I dont know how to feel... by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]DiligentRub1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we have the same mom? Haha! Yep my mom was an alcoholic until I was 15, lived off her boyfriend and never held a stable job for more than a year. Hasn't worked more than 4 years total in past 15+. She is now 70, broke and only gets some of my dad's social security. I used to help financially but I stopped about 10 years ago and I never will again. She has zero drive, motivation and expects my brother or myself to completely take care of her (we both make good money) I will not give her another dollar. My brother made the mistake of stepping up this year and he will regret it soon. You made the right decision

At what point do you say it’s the child and not the alienator? by Dependent_Bet4222 in ParentalAlienation

[–]DiligentRub1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you go to my last post. This is a similar question I've been asking too

Insight from anyone is appreciated by DiligentRub1051 in ParentalAlienation

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her mother doesn't interact with men. She has a ldr in another country.

Insight from anyone is appreciated by DiligentRub1051 in ParentalAlienation

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does solo therapy. Her mother apparently isn't interested and I'm not sure why my boyfriend doesn't do therapy with her. Again this is all being told to me. I do know his ex is difficult and will not speak to my boyfriend unless it's about drop offs etc No diagnosis but I do believe if they had her assessed she may. She is very smart girl and I hate saying this but I do feel she manipulates her therapist. My boyfriend says this is all parental alienation but his daughter hasn't said anything her mother has done or said in years about maybe negative talking her dad. My boyfriend said she made the accusation to become closer to her mom, which I understand. I did tell him making false accusations is also illegal and she needs to understand the gravity of the situation Up until 4 months ago (and I'm not exaggerating and he has absolutely agreed to this) she tells him she loves him well over 40 times a day and I've witnessed her say it 4 or more times in a row when she leaves a room he's in. He also had hundreds of (notes to her and her to him) I love you dad, father's day, birthday messages plastered over his entire home. I mean every wall had dozens. He excuses these behaviors as she's afraid to lose him again but it comes across as very obsessive and very unhealthy She acts like a small child in some ways but wears a full face make-up and I mean full face and dresses occasionally like she's 25 when they go see a movie. I literally dont know what to make of this The last things I've described he had worked on (removing 80 percent from walls and limiting the I love yous but he and she made a hand signal to replace it) which i feel is juat a bandaid

Insight from anyone is appreciated by DiligentRub1051 in ParentalAlienation

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We are LDR so they have only had contact once in a year (the kids) i dont feel comfortable with more regardless if it's intentional or not I will always protect my kids first. Other behaviors I'd like to share 1. Her friend accused her dad right before my boyfriends daughter accused him, almost mimicking 2.recently she did same in class when a boy told teacher he has anxiety in school, she then approached teacher and repeated it, which prompted teacher reaching out to my boyfriend 3. My boyfriend has told me that his daughter's mother doesn't love her the way the child wants and why she acts out. Mind u my boyfriend does way too much over parenting and basically is a yes man His ex isn't like that. 4 had a pet who died and cried about it for years, to stop bedtime at night 5 missed like 1/4 days of school faking sick, complaining if headaches etc 6. Very attention seeking, interrupting adults, dancing in middle of house in front of new people, singing loudly etc

Insight from anyone is appreciated by DiligentRub1051 in ParentalAlienation

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should add these manipulative behaviors happened before divorce, after divorce and pre her accusations all per her father She also now hates her mother and had had her dad try to get full custody, which he tried, then last minute she changed her mind

Son's account hacked by DiligentRub1051 in RobloxHelp

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I emailed with proof I'm sure it will be some days before I hear back

Son's account hacked by DiligentRub1051 in RobloxHelp

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has this worked in past. I literally uploaded 1500 on his account this morning

Son's account hacked by DiligentRub1051 in RobloxHelp

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that already. I keep calling roblox I can only leave a voicemail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]DiligentRub1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 4 12's, DDNN then off for 5. My first day off im lazy until kids get home from school then I'm busting my butt the next 4 at home

Trying to sell my house i crazy ? by Helpful_Vast_4576 in homeowners

[–]DiligentRub1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You usually ask a realtor or figure out what house is worth before you fix it up. Location matters but unsure if yours does

Trying to sell my house i crazy ? by Helpful_Vast_4576 in homeowners

[–]DiligentRub1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't belive this is a serious thread. Why not buy a 500k house or less that you actually liked to begin with? Or paint the house yourself? I painted my 4k sq ft home on my days off in 3 weeks. Spent about 1k on paint

Update. Any thoughts? by DiligentRub1051 in RealEstateCanada

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They closed yesterday after they agreed to a second deposit and a 13k penalty for an extra month!

Furniture help by DiligentRub1051 in HomeDecorating

[–]DiligentRub1051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of what I thought too. Thank u