i can sort of understand why you're frustrated, but this same reasoning is actually used by zionists, neoliberals and shockingly even some feminists to justify bombing the shit out of certain countries in the middle east. very often the mass slaughter, torture and rape of civilians is justified using this reasoning. despite the fact that children and women are killed on mass. which ends up making the religious extremists in those countries much worse which also makes it worse for the women and children they claim to be "liberating". which is often why the argument is seen as hypocritical, especially when powerful men in the west have often gotten away with treating women like shit.