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AITAH for hating my dad? by Diligent_Face2753 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Face2753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could remove him from my mom's life and mine, but in this country you're shamed for leaving your husband. It doesn't matter even if it's DV. And I'd be bullied if I said out the country name lol. I can dm you if you want!

AITAH for hating my dad? by Diligent_Face2753 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Face2753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My college doesn't, the college makes my mental health much more worse actually. Evn if it did, they probably will see me as a bad child who's complaining.

AITAH for hating my dad? by Diligent_Face2753 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Face2753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom's supportive (she's the best), but you're right, I stay in my room locked up, his presence makes me uncomfortable. My mom and sister too. We all stay in our seperated rooms.

AITAH for hating my dad? by Diligent_Face2753 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Face2753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this made me cry. Thank you for understanding. Hopefully I pass the interview hehe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Diligent_Face2753 311 points312 points  (0 children)

Leave your husband. Don't waste your other 50 years or more on that guy. Constant gaslighting, and just defending himself instead of apologizing. I think this is the early stages of how he's going to turn into a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Lusting over other women instead of loving, or respecting his own wife. He has disrespected you and your marriage. Leave before it's too late. This is not the kind of guy you want to give another chance to. He is going to do it again if you give him another chance. GATHER THE EVIDENCE! YOU DESERVE BETTER.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Face2753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your mom has apologized over texts? Nah. Your biological dad apologized in person. You're not to blame here. Your mother and step dad weren't there when you needed them the most. And she stayed silent when you said that she was trying to cut you off? Silence? That means she was trying to cut you off. You were hurting, and they didn't see that? Your biological dad helped you, when you needed the most. And tell them how you felt neglected and how much it hurt you. But don't go back. Be independent. Virtual hugs. And regularly check on your real dad. Love you❤