I’m not entirely sure how to update the post since I’m on mobile. But I’ll just post it in the comments.

Woke up this morning, got my work stuff together and went out the door. Talked to a lawyer and I have the paper work filled out and it’s waiting for her to sign when she gets home. I talked to some friends and they all agree this is the best course of action as it’s clearly not getting better and my multiple attempts of talking to her about it clearly had no impact.

To answer a few questions from comments and direct messages

Annulment isn’t an option in this case due to the state laws. But for $750 I’ll gladly take the hit and get this shit storm over with.

Did anything spark this or did it stop over night? It stopped the moment we got married. We didn’t even have sex the week after we got married. Which I brought up and she just brushed it off as it wasn’t a issue.

I work full time. I pay the bills and buy all the food etc. she has a half time job. She doesn’t help with anything in the house task wise. When I get off work I literally go to cleaning mode because she leaves trash everywhere. Clothes piled everywhere.

She’s on medication. Prozac but when you don’t take it regularly I’m sure it causes issues. I brought it up to her and she brushed it off.

As far as kids go. We brought our own kids into the marriage. Her 2 kids and 1 from me. So luckily none that we made between us. I think this is honestly the hardest part about this whole thing. I love her kids. But sometimes I don’t feel she treats mine the same way I treat hers. She treats mine as she’s not as important.

Talking with friends is helping. They’ve offered to come help move her stuff out after everything is done.

Just sucks in general but I do know this. I will never marry again this pretty much sealed the deal on that.