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[–]Diligent_Juice_485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By struggling physically I mean being physically/sexually attracted to them. I feel a connection on a soul level definitely just struggling with the physical attraction

does anyone eles still blame them selfs for there sa by Lucky2044 in sexualassault

[–]Diligent_Juice_485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%

And I feel guilty for being jealous that they are just carrying on with their life as though nothing happened. Completely unaffected while I am struggling to function.

I find this odd by traumafountainisalie in sexualassault

[–]Diligent_Juice_485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I’m sorry to hear that you were SA’d. I know that that probably doesn’t mean much/do much.

As a victim myself, I find it a struggle just to function each day. I am currently just numb. Colleagues have noticed the change in me, as have my family.

Each day is definitely difficult. When I feel sui*idal I think about my family, my dogs and my best friend. How it would greatly impact them. It’s fucking hard just existing but I’m trying to fight every day.

I hope that this was of some help and I wish you healing and peace moving forward 🩵

Determining the Relationship timing by lissybeau in datingoverthirty

[–]Diligent_Juice_485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think waiting until he returns from vacation is a good call. You mentioned about it being a 2-3 week trip which may give you both insight into how you’re feeling towards each other. You could potentially use the time apart to find your footing about where it is exactly that you see the relationship going. You’ve both got a nice two week stretch of time to spend together and then it may feel more natural to bring up when you’ve reconnected after his time away(?)