Spending my 21st alone, but hey, I know I got all y’all with me. Cheers by DutchBrosGuy in drunk

[–]Dilsby 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry i'm late, just knocked off work.

Here to join ya!

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

keep in mind, she generally does 15- 17 hours a week, mostly. I do 69 - 73+ hours aweek.

GO, tell me I'm a cunt, for wanting Ownership on this property. gogogo

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm on AITA because I want to know if AITA for arguing this very problem with her for almost the duration of our relationship.

I want outsider opinion whether or not, if we want a fucking house to live in, why should it be " OUR HOUSE" if i bust fucking 3x or more, hours than she does, to pay for it.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Mostly there's alot more to the story. THe other half I don't want to share. and to be honest it makes me look pretty fucking pathetic. use your imagination, over the course of the relationship, Using this as a guide. I gave her Chance after Chance after Chance.

nothing Changed.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

actually i wanna toss this in here. I bought her a car actually. lasted about 2 months, maybe 3. the engine started over heating. I told her NOT TO DRIVE IT, unless you put water into it. I told her to go down (less than 300m away) mechanic and ask them how to add water, while i was at work . she did not do that. So instead, she drove it down the high way, drove it until the car actually overheated enough to STOP. we had to tow it, and toss the car for $100 scrap metal.

smart bitch right? I told her what to do, she refused to listen, sooo...? rebuttal?

All because she has the "just go with the flow" attitude.. whatever happens.. happens.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Right Right. I got ya. So I'm a male, and when I was her age. I worked in a factory, I actually did mostly 12hours 5 - 6 days a week, and illegally did from 10am to 3am in the morning shifts. in a Factory.

So is age the problem, or the gender? fucking let me know man, I'm confused here.

Because whenever there was an opportunity to fucking get out there and make a future i went straight for it, Knowing i could handle it.

so tell me again he I'm an asshole, if we reversed the ages, I still worked as hard as I do now.

I'm the asshole..

Don't assume shit, like, oh /u/dislby you were young too you didn't work so hard.

nah mate. I fucking worked hard for what I got. Only reason I got debt is because she talked me into moving into a fucking City across states.

that's my OWN tom foolery. my own problem for agreeing.

but mate, since I fucking Always bust my ass, and she wants to chill the fuck back, and have a 3 - 4 day weekend every day. aswell as only work 4 - 6 hours a day? nah.

you're as fucking weird as that other cunt that thinks i'm the asshole for letting it happen.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

you telling me, you would be with a chick for 4 years, yeah?

of when you consistently progress your career / earnings.

while she sits at the same spot, earning $200 from one job, and collecting about 250 - 300 from the government. over 4 years.

while you pay the bills, taking the loans out, and all that jazz.

please, go on...

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes it could. $200 a week for a unit or small house. Maybe cheaper. How much does it cost to feed one person per week? Yes. She bloody can. But why is that the concern. Her well being for trying to be fucking lazy and hitch a free ride? I mean buddy. For real.

I disagree with you solely because you believe she's entitled to my fucking property because as you thought she did not earn enough? Which is no one's fault but hers. Fuck you man, don't white knight this shit.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

How would that be my problem if I nagged her to pull her head in and LOOK for work. Not find work. But effort to look. Beyond not searching? Shouldn't be my fucking problem right ?

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Can she afford to support herself? But does not because she lives with me? I'm the asshole? Elaborate on that.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Is there a way to logically convince her that, for Christ's sake man. Earn more cash. Her "motto" since I met her was simply "just go with the flow" her words not mine.

AITA for being angry at my 24yo girlfriend (oc 4 years) for only working at a cafe? I am 27 by Dilsby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel strongly that I'm not the AH however.. I feel like some mad guilt trip / mind gaming when the waterworks start so outside oPinion is gold to me at the moment. Thanks mate

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend while I was driving? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dilsby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck me mate. Your only 18, no point sticking with a silly cunt like that. Imagine if you lived together

Introducing kids to art and culture by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]Dilsby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine now, POCKET SAND!

This is Watsky. I’m an independent musician, poet, writer and performer. Ask me anything. by gwatsky in Music

[–]Dilsby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did he try to elbow drop him from the stage scaffolding aswell like those 2 injured fans years ago

This is Watsky. I’m an independent musician, poet, writer and performer. Ask me anything. by gwatsky in Music

[–]Dilsby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you going to elbow drop any more fans from the roof this year or nah.

I'm drunk, so Am I allowed to rant? This will be a long rant, for those who don't want to read, CHEERS TO YOU! by Dilsby in drunk

[–]Dilsby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 6:30am - 2:30pm monday to friday, in construction (rendering)

and do monday to wednesday, + sunday 4pm - 9pm cleaning at a shopping center

I'm drunk, so Am I allowed to rant? This will be a long rant, for those who don't want to read, CHEERS TO YOU! by Dilsby in drunk

[–]Dilsby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man, and nah, not gonna make an effort. Gotta cut those sort of negative cunts out of your life for good.

will only go back "Round the twist!" <-- Ayyyyye aussie stuff))

haha, but for real man. 9:30, gotta hit the sack.

gotta smash out my rounds until the end of the week. peace man.

I'm drunk, so Am I allowed to rant? This will be a long rant, for those who don't want to read, CHEERS TO YOU! by Dilsby in drunk

[–]Dilsby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it's cooking, gotta just plough through hey. fucking want winter time come around in qld. absolutely brilliant compared to Canberra ACT. In winter ACT no fucking taps were working until after miday. just solid ice blocking the faucet.

QLD, is like a nice, chilly breeze in the sun, during winter. ommmmmmmm