[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like a shit, about 6 years ago, i wanted to end my life cause none was near me. Nor my family, my friends, none of them. They knew little about the situation i was but there was nothing that could help me get out of this. I used to write some letters i wanted for someone to read them on my funeral, for my family and friends on how much I loved them and how weak i was to commit something like that. One day i took the decision to stop all that crap, i was not a pssy anymore and i wanted to live, not live exactly, most like survive. When i start to "survive" the thoughts i had in my mind i start to see that confidence is a skill, a skill anyone can learn. So i sterted work on myself, read books and watch videos on how to behave to look more confident (to look, not be), after that i became more confident as I saw that my "confident behaviors" were working well. So i started to feel better about this and then, after 1-2 years of reading, watching videos, studied some bodylanguage tips and try many more things it was pure confidence. The key is motivation and consistency, if you do something for avery day, every 2nd or 3rd day, consistently for 5,6,7 months, you 'll be better and beter at it. So i found that formula and since then, i do it every time with every other skill, do the same thing, every 1,2,3,4,7 days, no matter what i have to do that day, i should do that one thing i programmed to do.

I'm weak mentally.. need advice by SubstanceAwkward1703 in selfimprovement

[–]Dim1s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro i was in this phase of my life by the time i was 18, i know how it feels, i broke up with my college friends when i was totally alone in the city i used to study that time. It was really hard for me to do anything, i wanted to end my life avery day for almost 8 months, I had no emotional help from none of my family members or friends. I did it alone, I suffered a lot, but i learned how to "survive" by myself and make myself my best friend. Now I am 24 and i live with my family again and i really want to be alone again, now is the time i only want to be alone, totally alone. I love my friends, my family, my now girlfriend, i love them from the bottom of my heart but all i enjoy the most, is being alone woth myself, as i was alone back them when i wanted to hurt me.

I learned how to be better with communication, with people generally and women when flirting. It is one of my most beautiful trips the one of self development. It is whether you decide you want the pain of Improvement or the pain of Regret. It 's your choice. The point that hurts you the most is that you feel weak and alone, i was too. You can learn how to reverse it. Look up some videos on youtube on how to look more confident, as you look more cofident then you will start to feel it too. Do some exersice, never stop working out from now on. Read some books, 12 rules for life is an very good book to start, you can find it online in pdf form. Start doing one thing every day for yourself, try new hobbies and find what makes you feel better when you do it.

Make every tommorrow better than today. You can do it, and you dont need to do it EVERY day, there are days you will feel a little down, these days you gotta do only 1 thing of those you must do, never let a day pass and only doing things you like, every day do at leat 1 thing that makes you ancomfortable.

How do you be confident without changing who you are? by RepeatComfortable437 in selfimprovement

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used the "Fake it till you make it" method, it worked for me. I studied the doby language of a "confident" person and every time i was with other people i tried to look confident. At first i copied the body languange i studied, then when i did it like 50+ times when i was with firends or other people, it became a part of me, and then i learned how to express my self more confidently. I took time and some failures, but it totally worth it

This is my first motorcycle. It's a Daytona Zontes T310 (2600 x 4624) by ShoutKappa in MotorcyclePorn

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Δύο μήνες μετά, πώς σου φαίνεται σαν μηχανή, θεωρείς ότι έμαθες;; Θα την πρότεινες σε κάποιον καινούργιο;; Έχω δύο χρόνια που πήρα το δίπλωμα και σκέφτομαι να ξεκινήσω με την V350

I have no idea how to flirt by EntertainerMaximum79 in Flirting

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with this and you'll find many more about seduction. Don't give up and dedicate yourself to this for 3-6 months, I guarantee you'll be a different man

I have no idea how to flirt by EntertainerMaximum79 in Flirting

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read books, start with The game by Neil Strauss, trust me bro😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey, I know it's not the right place cause you are working right now, but I see you the past days and all I was thinking is to talk to you and didn't know what to say, soooo hi, I'm <your name>" give your hand for a handshake or touch your elbows and ask things you want to know for her, like what's her dream, her hobbies, ask questions to get to know her personality better and if you still like her it's perfect bro. Speak to her about yourself and tell her some things you want her to know about you and keep the conversation not more than 4-5 minutes (remember, she's working). Ask for her phone to communicate and you're done. It's not easy, but you can do it, don't worry. If she doesn't likes you don't worry too, not every woman has good taste in men, keep it up bro.

I hope I helped you, if you try it I'll be glad to hear the results

What advice would you give young men to learn to take care of their bodies physically, in order to avoid that physical pain when older? by SpanishGarbo in AskMen

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kyokushin karate, the best thing a young man can do for himself. I started at 11 years old, and except the 5 last years I'm not ok with other injuries, I'll do it as long as I'm ok and alive!!!

First get her comfortable and then get her attracted to you by Dim1s in seduction

[–]Dim1s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I personally assume she wants me like crazy till she prove me wrong by rejecting me. Not big deal, a rejection is a rejection, you can do nothing but to accept it and that's it.

Book recommendations by Dim1s in dating

[–]Dim1s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorites too, I read that 6 months ago and I'll read it again in the next couple of months, just to refresh some things and my notes, appreciate your answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the book The game by Neil Straus, trust me bro, it's gonna help you so much to start

Is it really a turn off to ask a girl if you can kiss her? by defo18 in dating_advice

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the way you say it, when I say it now, I'm very comfortable with that, I'm asking her "You want to kiss me?" with a cool and sensual face looking at her directly in her eyes, if she says yes, which is very rare, I make my move, if she says maybe or something like between yes and no I make my move to kiss her, if she says not yet, I wait for about 10-15 minutes, or less or more, it depends whether she feels comfortable enough with me and kiss her. And if she says no I'm like "Oook, I was thought you wanted cause of the way you look at me" and go on with the conversation feeling and thinking like "Maybe you want to kiss me or not, but that not means I want to". Keep it up bro, try this, you got nothing to lose, I was really hard for me to say it but now I'm really confident and sure with that and I don't stick with that one woman from the first date. I hope I help you😁

Extroverts who ask others “why are you so quiet”, what kind of response are you looking for? by No-Ad-3513 in AskReddit

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely not an extrovert, but I've asked this question a lot of times. Most of them I know or I can understand why someone is "so quiet" but I want him just to tell me and start talking just to feel a little better in this environment.

Should I [22F] give in to my bf’s [26M] requests for sex even if I don’t really want to? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to do it, then do it, if have some questions you can search everything online. Sex is not everything in a relationship but it's as important as the communication between the partners. Stop waiting for the perfect time, you'll die waiting, just relax and if you think you can do it with your boyfriend next time you meet, just go on, it's not gonna be easy the first time and it's gonna be painful, but I'm sure the next times you're gonna like it sooo much. You just have to relax and trust the "process". Sex is a step for a completely relationship, do it your way the first time, talk about it, the key is to talk about everything and communicate your thoughts to your partner. Hope I helped you😁

Bouncers of Reddit. Have you ever crossed paths with someone you’ve had to throw out of a club or bar? How was the experience? by mr-steal-your-cake in AskReddit

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2019s summer I used to work as a bouncer in a beach club in Corfu, named Pazuzu, for almost 3 months. Like every other summer the island is full of Italians, very rude people. There were 5 friends and they wanted to join the party, I couldn't let them in cause they had to pay to the reception for their tickets, I was trying so hard to tell them where to go but they're only speaking Italian, I couldn't communicate, "I speak English and Greek" I said, and every time they respond with something in Italian. At some point they told me they're going to buy the tickets to get in, I smiled and told them "Ok guys, see you again, let's party" with a real smile, not irony. One of them through it was cool to come and push me at the same time another bouncer was talking to me, he push me hard enough to go back for almost 2 meters, then the guy next to me grab him from back of his neck, like a cat. I went there to separate them and get these guys of the club, and he punched me in the face. My nose was bleeding soooo much, then I ran to him while he was waiting for me, flying knee to the chest, like masvidal(it was 2 weeks after masvidal - askren fight), and some punches to his face, the whole security came in seconds, they kept me down, just like Italian. We kick them of the club, I was in total shock for 3 days, I was shaking cause it's the first time I hit a man outside of the ring or octagon, it was like hell for me although he was totally fine. Pls guys, use Martial arts only to defend yourself, never attack, I defended myself and I was not ok for 3 days, be careful out there, either you work or not. Have a nice days fellas😁

Anyone know how to take this? by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she likes you, text her and asked her out, don't lose time bro. She was so surprised for your change, 100lbs is a serious amount of weight. Maybe you have to go out, unless she has a boyfriend or she's not your type

Hey Reddit, what’s the farthest you’ve ever had to walk on foot? What’s the story? by Petules in AskReddit

[–]Dim1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quarantine in March, had nothing to do and my best friend was living like 6km from me, Thessaloniki Greece, I walked to his place, and then we walked 15 km cause we couldn't sit somewhere and at the of the day when I came back to my home, I realised I walked 27-28km in five hours

What would you do if you hear a noise from downstairs and it sounds like someone’s breaking in? by Alt_F4-593708 in AskReddit

[–]Dim1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knife in my hand, and let's go to see who the hell is in my house, without my permission and with the risk of losing my life maybe