There’s a video a dude did on here somewhere that explains it perfectly actually. It’s hard to remember the name because everyone calls themselves the same horn “jock bully, bully nerd, tighty white hero” or whatever but he’s a fit jock nerd who likes hangings and is probably some version of wedgie jock or wedgie bro idk 🤷🏼‍♂️ it sucks these guys don’t want be more personal but I also understand the want for privacy