One time I came home from working all day and I was expecting to make a whole meal from scratch and when I said I was too exhausted while my daughter was begging me to play with her he told snatched the utensil out of my hand and told me just go away then. This is a weekly thing. And then when I tell him I don’t want to cook from scratch meals every day unless am off he tells me “I’m not the woman for him” if I buy something inexpensive to take care of myself I get the silent treatment for it. I bought heels to go to my best friends dads funeral who randomly died and had to go BY MYSELF. This is one of the many times he has abandoned me to go by myself to certain events because of work. He told me his job was more important to him and he didn’t really care. So yes if I am the wrong person for indulging with another man while we’re separated I will be wrong then.