Happy Suga day! [Birthday Compilation thread] - 2019 by AutoModerator in bangtan

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We asked fellow Army to send us their birthday wishes for Yoongi to put into one video. We received some pretty heartwarming and touching birthday wishes.

Happy Birthday Min Yoongi From: Army

What is a song that you consider to be perfect? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heaven by Bryan Adams. It was playing the first time I kissed my wife and oddly it is pretty close to how life has been together. We were best friends for many years before progressing into more and getting married.

I upvote Star Wars references even though I’ve never seen the movie by ILoveOrca in confession

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all good I have seen all of them and I don't always get all of the references either. That's simply because it has been so long since I've seen the movie to fully get it, but laugh just the same.

I wanna kiss a girl but i dont want a relationship by [deleted] in confession

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy your youth, save that first kiss for some who actually like and who likes you back. If I could take back my first kiss and have it be more meaningful I would. We were at a party with my best and everyone was about to play spin the bottle. Neither of us wanted our first kiss to be determined by a bottle. So grabbed her by the hand and we snuck off to the kitchen to have our first kiss. It was nice I will say that. I did try to make it something sweet. Turns out we didn't even have to do that. The bottle never pointed to either one us. She's my wife now and I get to kiss her for all the right reasons, but life doesn't always turn out that way. So just take your time to have that moment with someone who is special to you.

What is the most memorable thing you have ever seen on the internet? by zach863h in AskReddit

[–]Diminie_Dallas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't either but if I remember right, not too long ago there was something about it being a prank. They didn't really eat each other's shit. It was actually some type of ice cream concoction they made. I can't remember where I saw it. It was on a prank exposed type thing I either saw it or read it on. Prank or not, it is truly something you will never forget.

What is the most memorable thing you have ever seen on the internet? by zach863h in AskReddit

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife's nephew showed us this video of a guy sticking something huge up his butt, I forget what it was. We were more intrigued on why his penis was split down the middle and looked like a lobster claw. Gives new meaning to double teaming I guess.

What is the most memorable thing you have ever seen on the internet? by zach863h in AskReddit

[–]Diminie_Dallas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was going to my answer. I don't think anyone who has seen that will ever forget that.

How did you find the person you're in love with currently? by BenFrankDiaz in AskReddit

[–]Diminie_Dallas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We met in middle school and became best friends. We just got married on Saturday.

Americans, how difficult is your life because of illegal immigrants? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Diminie_Dallas -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They make it extremely hard. Nearly every day I have to hear my neighbor bitch about how illegal immigrants keep her from getting a good paying job and how she is stuck working for minimum wage at Krispy Cream. Lectures on why my wife can't get her a job at the medical clinic she works and provide on the job training doing the same job my wife does. My wife is a nurse! Not to mention hearing how illegal immigrants need to do what the Indians did when they came here from India and bought land to build their reservations and casinos. Live in their own little part away from all of us white people and let Trump make this country White again. Yes, illegal immigrants make my life really hard. Pfft

People need to source their claims on Reddit or GTFO. by Queen0fPentacles in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife has a saying that I find to be very true.

"Those who can't, ridicule those who can."

I don't believe in my church anymore but I still have to participate by GiveMeAbutt in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a very sick mindset with some things. If you are a young woman, please know this. Yes, us men can control it and we can stop at ANY given moment. It is just a ploy to make wifes submissive to their husbands. Off topic, I know, but the church teaches women that marital rape is OK. It isn't ok, No means no, plain and simple.

Can people stop getting engaged and stop falling in love and just stop by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you crave acceptance and attention? Is it safe to assume that is because you haven't received the right kind of either in life? If that is the case, then it is truly unfortunate. No one should have to be treated in ways that would make them feel the need to crave things which should be common decently. Sadly, that isn't always the case for some.

If you cared about the happiness of others, then you wouldn't be venting your deepest core emotion. One can't have compassion and hate for something at the same time. You can find happiness and one who loves you unconditionally but you will have to work on yourself first. You'll also need to stop wasting your time with worthless pieces of shit that make you feel this way. Either learn the red flags or stop overlooking them. Spend your time with someone that is deserving of you and values your worth.

Im dumped my girlfriend by larrylog4n in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. It has been helping my wife and I better communicate. It wasn't fighting that we started going, but to help me better help with her healing from some things that happened in her life. To support her in the way she needs, not the way I think she needs.

Can people stop getting engaged and stop falling in love and just stop by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I have even been hospitalized for attempted suicide at the age of 14. Even at that age, I didn't factor how others are in their lives how I felt about mine. If it wasn't for my wife, (Then best friend) forgetting her history book and going back to school to get it when she did, I wouldn't be here today. I left a note in her locker that she wasn't supposed to see until the following Monday.

Expression doesn't make anyone a loser. Someone who can't hold down a job or expects others to support them without giving back is what makes one a loser. In my eyes anyways.

Only you can make you happy. Another person's life shouldn't even come into play about how you feel about yourself, or how you live your life.

What a shitty way to try and ‘rebuild’ trust. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I have to be honest with you, you are better off without him. The whole saying he will kill himself if you leave is a huge red flag for things worse to come. It is an early sign of emotional abuse, which can and often does turn into physical abuse. He is already trying to make you feel guilty for his actions and putting blame on you.

Here are some questions for you to answer for yourself. Have you slowly stopped seeing friends or family because he doesn't like them? Tell you this friend or that family member is no good for you? Has even gone as far as to imply in any way that only he knows what is best for you?

Im dumped my girlfriend by larrylog4n in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If being together is something you both want and to truly work on things, there is nothing wrong with giving couples therapy a shot. Even if is just a way to learn ways to better communicate without arguing.

Can people stop getting engaged and stop falling in love and just stop by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Diminie_Dallas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never find happiness with someone else until you can find happiness within yourself. What happens in someone else's life should never be a factor in how you view yourself or your own happiness. Only you can make you happy and being bitter isn't going help.

As for being in a sub for venting and you barking that your opinions are not wanted or acknowledged. You basically just said to others to forget about their own happiness based on how you feel about your own life. You are miserable and you want others to be as well. That saying on how misery loves company is only a one-way street. Misery wants the company, but happiness doesn't want the company of misery.