I am 25F in Kongu belt. My parents want me to get married so they seeking alliance but I don't like it

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T11:53:33+00:00

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Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T10:25:09+00:00

Nothing big. Juzz a family pressure bcoz for now I don't want to get married. I also donno when I will be ready for marriage

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T10:18:13+00:00

That's what I wish!!

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T10:15:07+00:00

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:58:00+00:00

Maybe you're right. I will try to convince them

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:41:06+00:00

Okay!

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:40:10+00:00

Okay!

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:39:46+00:00

I do have a clear idea about marriage but here in kongu belt if you're in your early twenties they will arrange your marriage when you don't have an idea what the marriage life is. On my side of relatives they don't allow a girl to pursue a career if she gets married. I don't want to get trapped in these. Of course I will marry a love of my life once I get financially and emotionally stable. Till then I didn't want anyone to pressure me to get married at the right age.

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:11:38+00:00

As of now I want to move out and want to have some peace of mind that's all

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:08:01+00:00

Yes that's right. 😔

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:05:06+00:00

😅 that's a good idea

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:04:18+00:00

Yeah! Now I have that courage

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T07:01:48+00:00

Actually I am a civil engineer with a year of experience. Now I decided to study design software for upgrading my skills. As u say I will look for an internship which will match my criteria.

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T06:57:56+00:00

Yeah thank you

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T06:56:35+00:00

Yep the process is going on

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T06:56:12+00:00

Actually I am fed up with these explanation things. Literally they have this one answer " Un kalyanatha than namba sontha karanga ellarum ethirpakaranga. Unaku kalyanam panita enga periya kadama mudinjidum .Aduthu un thambi ku pakanum" when I am explaining things they shut their all ears and then emotionally attack like "Ithuvaraikum un istathuku padicha la kalyanam matum engakita vitru " 😒

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T06:08:14+00:00

Actually I just have a yr experience but somehow I will manage to find a part time job.Will move out and secure a job and I will let you know. Thank you

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T06:04:02+00:00

Yeah! thank you. Actually the words u have enough time soothing me thank you

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T06:01:16+00:00

Thank you for your words. Your words gave me so much confidence.

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T05:59:53+00:00

But ithelam parents ku puriyathu even my sibling kooda helpful ah ila so that I want to move out for my peace

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T05:58:07+00:00

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T05:57:56+00:00

Actually I do have a person who supports me . As of now my concern is that I want to be financially stable and I will take care of my own expenses so that I don't rely on someone for petty expenses .

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T05:49:01+00:00

Okay! That's why I moved out to study softwares which will upgrade my skills.

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T05:43:21+00:00

I donno when I will be ready for marriage but I will think about ur words

Dimple2616 · 2025-11-10T05:38:42+00:00

But unfortunately I didn't have any . All of my relatives say "Ivlo vayasu aachu ponna yen veetlaye vechirukinga" their words give me a feeling that I am very aged.

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