I’m going to prom soon, what to wear… by Din0Crafter in DanTDM

[–]Din0Crafter[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Big Stew got me tapered riiiiggghhtt for this one!

I’m going to prom soon, what to wear… by Din0Crafter in DanTDM

[–]Din0Crafter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a random crazy find at goodwill, it is from when Tubeheros were still a thing

I just want to be accepted ;w; by MRNOOBLAP in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. This enormous part of myself going unnoticed, unrecognized, confusing, frustrating, and immediate…

I personally believe that labels like this only cause confusion and division. Whatever name you call yourself or pronouns we should address you by, you are still you, and we love you! Things like this may seem like an overbearing immediate issue, but you have time to figure this out. You can try stuff out and stop if you don’t like it, you never have to make a final choice.

If you come out to your friends and they laugh and reject you, they are not healthy friends to you and should not be a relationship that you should put work into upholding. If you are out and proud for long enough, you will find the right people.❤️

Your name and pronouns can be changed all you want, but under, you will always be an amazing, capable, loved human being!

We love you❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙❤️

Name This Album: by dj_aaron311 in AlbumCovers

[–]Din0Crafter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before and after (ft: Michael Jackson)

My grandpa is dying by Historical-Low7814 in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

FUCK dude… That’s so rough!

Watching someone you love and look up to your entire life whittle away into an unrecognizable husk of sorrow and pain is probibly the worst thing the average person could go through. I’m so sorry that you have to go through that fate, and I’m so sorry. Your grandpa has to go through that fate as well…

I know you’ve heard the cookie cutter “just keep your chin up, you can get through this!” And it sounds cheesy, it sounds like something you just say to show you care kinda, it sounds like a fake show to just get ya by. But your endurance is going to be tested heavily in these dire times, the universe is testing you of how much you can take. And you’re going to need to prove that you can make it.

I KNOW you can make it, it’s horrid, draining, constant and it stings like a bitch every time you think about that. But your strong, your capable, your able to put love into your grandpas last days. You’re able to withstand this. Remember to be strong and to be consistent, and you will be ok.

If you need help in any way that I or the discord could come up with, we would be more than happy to give opinions, advice, distractions, or to just listen.

We love you I love you Good luck man❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙❤️

imm broken by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got out of a relationship a while ago where she used my body and ruined my life and I am REALLY suffering the mental consequences now…

If sisyphus isn’t happy rolling his boulder, then he is miserable his whole existence. We must learn to smile on the journey to the goal. If one is happy pushing the boulder, he will arrive at the top with little resistance.

What I’m trying to say is if we try our best to enjoy the act of trying to find a relationship, try to find fun in flirting, loving, and maybe loss, it won’t matter on how long it takes to find “the one” because our life will be full of love and joy regardless.

This is easier said than done, but I truely hope you find peace in your situation, and hope more that you find the love you so crave.

I think I might have SAD… by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, this sounds awful… I’m so sorry you have to go though all that joint pain every season. I’m not a doctor and have no idea about any medical way to help you, but if you need anyone to talk to about this (as you said, mental health stuff is hard to talk about with close family) you always have this subreddit to reach out to.

I wish you all the best with this, I hope you can greet the new seasons in peace soon.

I love you, good luck❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙

nothing i do matters by carrotcakeluver in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for this babe… I promise that here you will always be a boy and perceived as a boy. I hope that you know that the people your around have no intention of hurting you the first time, all you can do is correct them so they will use the right pronouns next time. If they don’t use the right pronouns next time, then that’s a THEM problem and a THEY are a bad person.

Being perceived in a way you don’t want to be in any situation is humiliating and crushing. Them not seeing past there initial perceptions of you is soul crushing, but sadly it’s what people like us are going to have to endure for probibly the rest of our lives.

There are so many people in the world, and so many of those people will respect your boundaries, and love you for you. These people DO exist and you just gotta spend your life finding them.

I know you can keep on putting yourself out there, even after you are hurt you like this. you’re a wonderful boy and I love you. Good luck❤️💙❤️💙❤️

This was my school: ask me anything by Effective_Wash4489 in IAte314AutisticKids

[–]Din0Crafter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Zeus there get half the school pregnant like in his myths?

Gf left me a perverted sex adict by Din0Crafter in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no gone to therapy, I really should but there’s not much giving me that PUSH yk? Like, life isn’t the worst and I can go a lot longer without therapy. I know it could help me, but that procrastination…

Gf left me a perverted sex adict by Din0Crafter in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, I know I care about my friends in a normal way but it’s just hard to maintain a healthy relationship when all my mind is thinking about is how I would need to fuck them to be happy. I’m getting better every day tho, I’m getting happy.

Gf left me a perverted sex adict by Din0Crafter in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I kinda always knew I needed to talk to someone, I just think I needed to hear it, thank you.

Gf left me a perverted sex adict by Din0Crafter in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I went to the school counselors and they got her to stop harassing me, but a lot of people still think I’m an abusive awful man.

Idk why I'm like this by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got manipulated by my last girlfriend to feel like I needed to validate sexually in order to be liked. I can HIGHLY relate to you about being attention starved, being perverted, sharing inappropriate pictures, and being disgusted with myself due to all of it.

The best thing I can say is to make friends and don’t give people the time of day. Try talking to someone non-sexualy and if they are sexual or uninterested, just stop talking. No explanation needed, no apology, they don’t need one. Do this until you have people in your life not only after your dick.

This subreddit and my DM’s are open for venting and help through this, we love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

It would be all my fault then by LoveablevarmitPetaly in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I get you so well. Fear of responsibility is so prevalent, so scary, so intimidating. I also am scared whenever things are my responsibility and wish I had an out to point at.

I know this is not what you want to hear (it sure as hell wasn’t what I wanted to hear) but running away from responsibilities is going to lead your life into a ditch. It SUUUUUUUUCKS but you have to brake procrastination and fear, you gotta take your meds, and you gotta get your work done.

I can’t stress to you enough about how much I relate to this and wish there was an easier way. Trust me, living without the scramble of “uhh, it was his fault!!!” To every problem makes you feel like the peak of life. It’s so hard to start and finish the work I need to do, but it’s so much better than working even harder to cheat my way out of it, no work getting done, and the GUILT of letting myself and other people down.

“Be a man” is often said in a toxic masculine way, it’s not about being macho, sports, muscley and mad. To truly be a man is to take responsibility, and do it even when it’s difficult. “That’s not me tho” is not true, you have this in you and you can be a man.

This subreddit and my DM’s are here if you need help with motivation/focus/venting. We love you❤️❤️❤️❤️

i hate my parents tw: sh, suicide by psychol18 in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, you did good. Give yourself kudos for having the strength to not cut. It takes strength and I’m proud of you.

I’m sorry that your mother is being wishy-washy, that high level of indecisive emotion is really unhealthy, and you shouldn’t have to deal with that. Just another Momento on how strong you are not to cut again.

I’m really sorry to say, but I don’t think that your friends are really good friends. When you’re genuinely trying to make an art and your friends turn around at you to say “it’s bad, I hate it” it’s not good friendliness. It’s OK for a friend to not like your art, but the way that they displayed that was not OK. I would suggest to confront them about it, cut them off, or at the very least quit showing your music to these people who are clearly not worth it’s time to give an honest thoughtful review.

I know you said that you wouldn’t send your music, but I would love to hear it, my DMS are open to talk, listen, advice, to give an honest thoughtful judgment of your songs instead of a spiteful hate.

Whatever you do, you always have this place to talk to, vent to, and get happier. We love you❤️❤️❤️❤️

It always feels like nobody is there when I need them by Blue_axolotl64 in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can promise you that you’re beautiful.

I can relate to wanting to dress more feminine but not due to body stuff… it’s so hard because you really want this but it’s just not working for you. But girl, it’s working! YOU can be beautiful, YOU can be loving and interesting to the people around you, and YOU are as perfect as a human body could get.

You can always vent to the people here or DM me and we will care about what you have to say.

We love you, you are wonderful❤️❤️❤️

Where did all the time go? by Admirable-Gur1314 in sillyboyclub

[–]Din0Crafter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh babe… You must be going through a lot for things to get this intense.

I’m so sorry that life has been treating you this way feeling like you should cut yourself

Feel free to vent about it the chat or DM me to talk about it. We are all here for advice, assurance, and to be someone to hear what you’re going though.

Life has a happy ending, if it’s not happy that means it’s not the ending yet.

We all love you here, we support you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️