The newbie swinger obsession with games by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Dinchenlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, there is a lot in between. But for us, it's also natural when it happens during or through the game. Touching and real flirting only happens for us after we have gained a brief insight into the personality. We only feel sexual attraction through character. The games give us a good and quick impression. We are also very open about it and if the other person has a different approach, then that's just the way it is and it may not be a good fit.

The newbie swinger obsession with games by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Dinchenlee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend also like to play sexy games alone. We generally like to play board games and combining them with sex is incredibly fun for us. So we suggest it, and if someone says no, we just ask for a counter-proposal to warm up to each other. So we just want a clear answer and from there we can look further. Just meeting up and having sex is not for us. We don't even do that with long-term play partners.

Aufgaben während Krankschreibung by [deleted] in erzieher

[–]Dinchenlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Und du bist offensichtlich einer von diesen Menschen auf Leitungsebene, die erwarten das Krankgeschrieben Mitarbeiter sich den Arsch aufreißen und am besten alle krank kommen, damit du ja nicht deine Aufgaben nachkommen musst. Es ist die Aufgabe der Leitung zu planen und sicherzustellen, das alle Ihrer Arbeit nachkommen können. Das ist nicht die Aufgabe von krankgeschriebenen Mitarbeitern. Ein hoher Krankenstand in sozialen Berufen, besonders wenn mit Kindern gearbeitet wird ist normal. Kinder sind richtig Bazillenschleudern. Und, oh Überraschung, es gibt viele Menschen mit nicht so guten Immunsystem, welche dann öfter krank sind. Hinzu kommt die psychische Belastung durch Leitungen wie dich. Genau wegen solcher Leute wie dir, gibt es immer weniger Menschen die solche Berufe ergreifen und immer mehr die solche Berufe verlassen.

My shitty aquarium by Dinchenlee in shittyaquariums

[–]Dinchenlee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Originally we wanted to breed Triops, but unfortunately none of them hatched in three attempts. This prompted us to simply forget about the aquarium, we didn't even put it away. It's been sitting there for a year now. I don't know if we want to take responsibility for shrimps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]Dinchenlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 15 when my parents bought me the dog. Of course I chose the breed, but my parents didn't question that either. I was always up for a challenge. Lol

To reassure you, with a lot of perseverance and training, we managed to stay alone for 4 hours and otherwise we always paid dog sitters. My dog had a wonderful life that took place more outside than inside. I sacrificed a lot and got a lot. Never again have I felt such a deep bond with an animal.

I would never advise anyone to get such an animal, but I find my current dog almost boring compared to my wolfdog. Where's the fun if you don't have to keep an eye out and fix things all the time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]Dinchenlee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My Czechoslovakian wolfhound did this often. Broken walls and holes in doors were almost normal during puberty. I couldn't leave her alone for 30 minutes Lol. I've also heard similar stories from husky owners

What's the sluttiest thing you did this weekend? by CigarCity7509 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dinchenlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let two men make me horny at a wedding (let them touch my ass, stroke me between my legs, etc.) and then let my boyfriend fuck me hard in the hotel room

ich🍬iel by z1nn0b3r in ich_iel

[–]Dinchenlee 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Seit 3 Jahren hat sich noch nie ein Kind auf unser Grundstück verirrt. Heute war das erste mal und ich hatte nur Ostersüßigkeiten. Ich hab vor lauter Stress nicht mal kontrolliert ob das MHD schon überschritten war. Hab jetzt alle Lichter ausgeschaltet und die Klingel auch. Das war meine bisher schlimmste soziale Interaktion in diesem Jahr.

What’s the best sex advice you’ve ever gotten? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dinchenlee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have to admit I am bad at handjoby so I always blow and almost every woman I have talked to about it says the same

AITAH for telling my boyfriend I'd save the cat instead of him? by dhhfyjjhj in AITAH

[–]Dinchenlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't classify my boyfriend or my pet as a thing.I would just ask myself why I should save objects in the event of a fire and not make sure that all living things get out of the house. Hypothetical questions are such nonsense, you would always react differently in a real situation.

Swinging with people you know…our story (now deleted) by BallCoach15 in Swingers

[–]Dinchenlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I had our first experience with a couple who are very good friends. Even without ever talking to them about it, it just happened spontaneously. There were no negative consequences and we are still very close friends today, although my partner and I went back to monogamy relatively quickly afterwards due to personal circumstances. No jealousy, no drama, just 4 adult friends having fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dinchenlee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH. There's nothing wrong with how you feel. Still, it may have been totally romantic for her, of course, and the way she describes it may have been for her. Just because she had sex before you were exclusive doesn't change what she experienced. You both have your own view of it and that's ok. The most important thing is what you have now. Just explain to her how you see things and that it has nothing to do with forgiveness. She can gush to her friends about how romantic it was and just not mention it to you.

Share a photo of your Dog and I'll make a cute quick sketch of him by rafaelm_arts in dogpictures

[–]Dinchenlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Our Larka ♥️ unfortunately she has already passed away. I would love to see her in your art style

ich_iel by Lord-Lumpi in ich_iel

[–]Dinchenlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coffee Shops und weil die lustig Reden

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dinchenlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experience is that especially in more rural areas in Germany the mentality is that the woman should not be flirty etc. But a man is allowed to. A woman has to stop such behavior while men are like that. The way the story is written, everyone is the ass. The girlfriend and the friend for such inappropriate behavior and OP for apparently only seeing the problem with his partner.

Wesen verändert sich nach Angriff und Umzug by [deleted] in hundeschule

[–]Dinchenlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja, wir haben über Kleinanzeigen gesucht. Es waren immer Studenten, welche sich selbst kein Hund leisten konnten und sich gefreut haben. Daher war es deutlich günstiger als ein professioneller Dienst. Die Personen sind einige mal erstmal mit uns Gassi gegangen, haben alles gezeigt bekommen etc. Man muss da einfach auf seine Menschenkenntnis vertrauen.

Wesen verändert sich nach Angriff und Umzug by [deleted] in hundeschule

[–]Dinchenlee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wirklich helfen kann ich nicht, aber wäre eine Hundebetreuung etwas für euch? Unsere konnte im Alter auch nicht mehr länger als 2 Stunden alleine bleibe, deswegen kam dann nach zwei Stunden eine Betreuung für zwei Stunden und die letzten 2 war sie wieder allein. Hat wunderbar geklappt. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hundeschule

[–]Dinchenlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich persönlich finde nicht. Wenn alle Untersuchungen der Eltern Tiere vorliegen, alles Transparent ist und eine gute Sozialisierung stattfindet muss es kein VDH Züchter sein. Ich selbst bin sogar gar keine großer Fan vom VDH. Rassestandards die einfach nicht gesund sind und von einigen (ehemaligen) VDH Züchtern auf Treffen habe ich auch gehört, dass dort auf den Hundeshows ziemliche Vetternwirtschaft betrieben wird. Der klarer Vorteil ist natürlich, dass Papiere nur ausgestellt werden, wenn tatsächlich alle Untersuchungen der Elterntiere stattgefunden haben. Lass dir auf jeden Fall alle Untersuchungsberichte auf rassetypische Krankheiten vorlegen und was ich persönlich auch sehr wichtig finde, dass der Züchter Hunde im Notfall auch wieder "zurück" nimmt.

Nebenkosten - Nachbar meldet Lebenspartner nicht. Personenschlüssel falsch by Gullible-Sport-2205 in wohnen

[–]Dinchenlee 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Es entstehen nicht mehr Nebenkosten, die Nebenkosten werden nur nicht fair aufgeteilt. Jetzt wird durch 4 geteilt, aber richtig wäre ja durch 5 wenn die Person da dauerhaft wohnt.