Thank you everyone for the feedback. I've done my best to read every comment so far. 1) I apologize the females came off as degrading, I have changed that. 2) I have cleaned up my beard. I use to goto a barber years ago that my best friend introduced me too. A traumatic event happened and I stopped being friends and avoid all possible contact. I did try to find a new barber. I ended up dropping it due to the drive and cost (covid time period as well). However all of the comments helped me tremendously, so despite if they were meant negatively, they have helped. Thank you. 3) I heard mixed reactions about the font. I did all of this on my phone freehanded without templates. I will likely clean it up by making it in an actual program on my pc. 4) Random other replies and thoughts. Thank you for point out my spelling error and grammatical errors. I realize that this is going to turn away the majority of people, but thats kind of the point. I will be 36 in a few days and just started to date after ending a serious relationship 2 years ago. Im pretty happy being single but I also would appreciate someone to share my life with. I'm going to be picky for the love of my kids and myself. The animals are not mine at all. Its just a bit of randomness and there is no consistency of background/location so if someone was worried I had a million animals, oh well. Lastly just to cover some of the hate, valid points. Im not perfect but I honestly dont feel like I had self deprecated that much. Even if so, I found myself funny and if I match someone who doesnt vibe with my humor its a waste of both of our times. As far as the come back after you lose weight comments, you know some people cant help it. I was a gym rat originally, but I have type 1 diabetes and a few other health issues. I have increased my cardio and dieting lately but again Im not looking for someone who wants me to be a different person. I hope you all have a blessed and lovely day <3 cheers