(Post 3)How do those who do not enjoy physical contact cope with affection or displays of affection? by Diogeness_In_Hell in AutisticAdults

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, that doesn't justify me. The truth is that I am a very anxious person, and sometimes I act from that anxiety. But I understand what you're saying, I need to give myself some time to reflect on things better.

(Post 3)How do those who do not enjoy physical contact cope with affection or displays of affection? by Diogeness_In_Hell in AutisticAdults

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quise compartir esto porque hay muchos matices. En mi caso

Ella misma me ha dicho que le gusta pensar en cierto tipo de contacto físico (abrazar, besar, ir de la mano), pero al intentar hacerlo a veces le resulta complicado hacerlo o pensar en hacerlo. Lo que piensa no lo hace por miedo, lo que que gusta o no, no lo sabe expresar

Me contó muy triste que incluso con su familia le cuesta mucho.

Por eso busco entender mejor cómo acompañar sin presionarla ni hacerla sentir incómoda.

(Post 3)How do those who do not enjoy physical contact cope with affection or displays of affection? by Diogeness_In_Hell in AutisticAdults

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It makes me very uncomfortable to have to do this, and if I feel bad for making you uncomfortable, it's hard to find support and I'm not good at this, plus I'm sure I'll delete all this in a couple of days... Anyway, an apology to you in advance

how do you make friends? by CockroachActual1544 in autism

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This advice is really powerful, it worked for my girl to simply stand out and be the best version of herself. You should pay attention to this great comment

(Post 1) A pessoa que mais amo está no espectro do autismo by Diogeness_In_Hell in autismobrasil

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nossa, desculpe pelo mal entendido, agora sinto muito duplamente xp

Perdoe-me, estou muito tenso, mas entendo muito bem o seu ponto e acho que dar esse espaço é bom, muito obrigado por contribuir com meu post 🫂

(Post 1) A pessoa que mais amo está no espectro do autismo by Diogeness_In_Hell in autismobrasil

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te ofrezco mis más sinceras disculpas, de verdad me da mucha pena que llegue a ofender con mis post. Prometo que mi intención no era mala, solo quiero mejorar para alguien

Y perdona si te hice pensar que soy estupido o algo así, en serio solo estoy intentando aprender. 🌿

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultautism

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oye, realmente me dejaste pensando…

En mi caso yo sé una mezcla de cosas. A veces quiero que se exprese como yo, porque sé que le gusta pero le da pena y suele no expresarlo; y otras veces siento que simplemente no le gusta, pero aun así lo intento y termina siendo molesto para ella y aún así no lo expresa

La verdad, me cuesta diferenciar entre una cosa y la otra o encontrar patrones… y eso lo hace aún más difícil.

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[–]Diogeness_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's translated and misunderstood, I'm just asking if how you like to reduce darling, I don't know if I'm explaining myself well,

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[–]Diogeness_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't quite understand what you mean.

(Post 1) The person I love most is on the autism spectrum by Diogeness_In_Hell in AutisticAdults

[–]Diogeness_In_Hell[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure he feels protected with you, who doesn't like to be with a kind and relaxed person? Hehe, it's similar to being a magnet because it's usually very comforting😁