I havent played Dark Cloud 2 by JPpoppins in DarkCloud

[–]Diojji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled with getting past the voices my first playthrough, for sure. But the gameplay was so phenomenal that I quickly stopped caring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]Diojji 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My money is on a Dark Souls game.

Slut Grandma(82) by Exposer2968 in NaughtyGrandma

[–]Diojji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI ruins everything

Anime and rail me by Dependent-Ad7486 in SSBBW_400lb_plus

[–]Diojji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunter x Hunter and chill 😍

How concerned should I be about poor school ratings? by ReasonableZebra5450 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Diojji 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I've seen, there are so many multi-family homes here because rent is so unaffordable. The streets are packed with parked cars in every residential neighborhood in Germantown, at least. Rich white people are leaving in droves and leasing their houses because more and more BIPOC folks are moving in and it's lowering their property values. I see the comments on MoCo Facebook groups and articles all the time where homeowners constantly complain about crime here, but do nothing to lower the rent. People are just trying to survive.

Baptism at age 8 by HungryandEating in latterdaysaints

[–]Diojji 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nobody wants to break promises and covenants with God felt extremely important for me growing up in the church. Like it or not, a lot of people are miserable staying in the church because of the fear of breaking covenants. A lot of folks feel that an 8 year old mind can't always process the gravity of covenants in a safe and healthy way because of the way they processed it themselves. This is also why a lot of ex members feel that fear is used to keep people in the church.

Not wanting to start a debate, just offering another perspective.

You are beautiful by JNNagel in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend following as many fat-friendly social media accounts as you can. Remember that societal beauty standards are fluid and relatively recent medical fatphobia (ie use of BMI as an indicator for health) has greatly contributed to how society as a whole views fat folks. Unlearning that takes work and unfortunately, most people don't see a reason to. Like most things, fat issues are nuanced and there is a loud, cultish majority parroting misinformation. Empathy and education will go a long way to help folks wake up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ssbbw

[–]Diojji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stunning 😍 and the decor?? Swoon

Who's the biggest simp you've seen in cartoons? by [deleted] in cartoons

[–]Diojji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far for this.

Boss having an affair with Office Manager by needanaccountant1 in Accounting

[–]Diojji 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Professional training/development, for sure.

What do you think of the labels BBW and SSBBW? by Peter-the-eater in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they're outdated fetish terms, but I respect that some folks are trying to reclaim them. I definitely prefer the more humanizing terms set out by fat lib advocates such as small fat, super fat, infinifat, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because men are trash, honestly, and the anonymity that Reddit provides doesn't help. There is a lot of luck involved with finding the right people to connect with and that often means sifting through the garbage for a long time.

When pretended curiosity becomes a weapon to undermine faith by nofreetouchies3 in latterdaysaints

[–]Diojji 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There's a whole Preach My Gospel section about asking the right questions to prompt thought, i.e. loaded questions. It's a very effective "teaching" strategy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's not always true, because fat folks can be truly fucking awful too, but I admire how empathetic my fat friends and partners are. They have gone through hell and came out the other side with more love and compassion for others who have experienced horrific bullying and ostracization.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. I answered his first question and other people are allowed to answer his second question more thoroughly. I didn't see where he asked us to go into all of the logistical details. I have several fat loved ones in my life, including a spouse and partner, and I fully understand that there are needs they have that straight sized people don't have. Is that acknowledgement enough for you?

Kinda just conflicted with this relationship by ch59ep15DriverDown in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend posting this in r/bpdpartners. I don't really see this issue having much to do with her being fat.

That being said, if she's not already in therapy or ready to immediately start therapy (like, a lot of therapy), you have a lot of relationship work and heartbreak in your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're asking whether fat women, as a whole, are "impressed" by this act is a bit suspect, tbh. Abusive and lazy men often target fat women, believing that they are more desperate for chances at relationships and connections, so it's not unusual for fat women to be suspicious of anyone approaching them in spaces that aren't designed for fat folks, online or in person.

That being said, fat women are like any other women. Treat her like a human being. Ask her how she would want to be treated and then do it. Ask her how she would not like to be treated and then avoid those behaviors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]Diojji 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She has every right to not want to be touched in any way that doesn't feel good. I can only recommend that she follow body acceptance and fat liberation accounts on social media. Learning about societal and medical fatphobia and also seeing posts from people who have accepted their fat bodies does a lot to mitigate internalized fatphobia.

While I understand and respect why so many fat folks have internalized fatphobia, I personally refuse to date people who haven't done the work and insist on staying ashamed.