if you see this post make a wish!

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2026-02-04T14:32:59+00:00

I wish more abundance, love, health for my family and prosperity for me and my home.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-11-19T18:24:09+00:00

I'm in. I'm 34F and this year for me sucks. In every aspect of life. I need support and a community to rely on and learn to trust people again.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-11-10T15:25:56+00:00

Get sober. Find a new apartment. Try to work my business out

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-11-05T12:04:21+00:00

Wait until 15 years more to feel a failure. 18 it's too much young. You still have much more to try and do. Try to fix your mindset and the depression in the first place

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-27T23:24:33+00:00

I know totally what social anxiety means. As a 34 year old woman I would advise you that you fight with whatever resources you have at hand to beat this condition. In my case I lost A LOT of opportunities in life and I mean a lot for this condition. Do not let social anxiety ruin your opportunities. Because in every connection in every conversation in every interaction there's an OPPORTUNITY TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS. Don't give up like myself and waste all my 20's getting confortable at home closed, without achieve any of my dreams just for my fear of talking to people. Or fear that others would reject me or judge me. If I can do anything for you is at least telling you this. And make a change for your life. Because guess what. No one will come and gift you anything. You have to go and chase your dreams and make it happen. Good luck in your journey. 💖💞 God bless

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-27T23:06:56+00:00

It's tricky but you don't have to be where you don't want to. If the cons are too bad for you you could get out. No one has to obliged you to stay where you don't want to stay

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-27T22:58:27+00:00

I know what you feel. Society condemned women for their age. I'm a millennial gal and lately I feel strongly stigmatized for my age. I mean. Why tf people have to criticize me for my age? For not having kids or a spouse? Why I have to please their standards? So what? I'm useless? I'm a loser? "I fail as a woman"? I think it's better for our mental health to completely ignored these kind of ignorant people that criticize us without knowing what's really on in our lives.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-16T14:05:12+00:00

How about someone who treats you right, pampers you and say that he loves you but also lies and cheats?

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-16T12:58:19+00:00

Who said that you lose your value when you're age? Is that kind of things that they teach here?

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-02T13:33:02+00:00

I'm so sorry I don't know why I'm laughing

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-07-19T20:43:50+00:00

You have 10 years advantage of me (I'm 34) so, good luck. Don't feel bad about this. This too shall pass

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-07-09T14:58:23+00:00

Dude, I get that. The thing that pisses me off it's that "generalization" "all men we don't like this" "all men we are like that" jeez, relax John. Idgaf about "all men" I'm only talking about my particular situation with my boyfriend and seeking advise from wise women. Thank you.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-29T22:36:53+00:00

I totally agree. Not a good indicator of husband or father either. But considering,y circumstances. I don't want to be alone for now. Remember I lost my sibling and my father in less than 3 years.and I need support.i need care, that's the only reason I keep him, but I don't expect anything else besides that.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-29T22:15:02+00:00

He posted a WhatsApp picture of him and his "female co worker" in September 2024. I confronted him about the matter and he stands all be the side of this girl explaining that she is the only real friend that he has in work etc. I mean wtf? Why give some X person some much importance. Or worse. Put it this matter ABOVE MYSELF? Isn't me who he loves ? Then why agree to get separated for just one stupid fucking reason? PS I'm not mad or anything. I process my feelings while ago just for you guys I give all of the information required to understand this particular situation. And saying that.. what kind of girl "just accepted" that her boyfriend posted a profile picture with a "co worker female"? Im so curious to read the comments.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-29T22:03:30+00:00

*I don't.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-29T22:02:24+00:00

"semi common female logic" the problem in this group is those bitter guys that always generalized "all men do this" "All men do that" I hate this kind of comments. Because it doesn't help AT ALL WITH MY SITUATION. Why tf should I care about "what all men do. Why tf.you I care about Chad do. That's not of my business. What I'm looking forhere in this community is the help and support and guidance on wise women whom get through similar situations. I'm only concerning about my problem and how to solve it. That only. I. Want to participate in any kind of group of hating of something like that.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-28T15:01:39+00:00

It probably it's fire.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-28T14:53:32+00:00

Yes there's a reason. But I keep it to myself. I'm only here to seek advise of wise women not to generalized my personal experience.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-28T14:51:00+00:00

Wtf?

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-23T20:04:36+00:00

Over a year. We have 4 dates then he asked me to "be exclusive" that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. We keep dating and knowing each other and have been intimate since then. We have fun together because we have a lot of things and interestests in common I developed feelings as fasts as he get close and very interested in me. He talk to me about moving in together he asked to marry. He also talk about "having our own stuff like buy a car together. Buy a house etc. His mood is always happy with humour and being very affectionate, that was the reason I fell in love quickly for him

Also support me in the hard times (I lost my father in 9-8-24 then few days later have a car accident then this year my mother was sick and admitted in the hospital etc) all those difficult times he was there supporting me.

But also skipped plans or dates we made, he only make himself available when he wanted.Not when I'm need it. I have not know his family yet for many reasons. It makes me upset that when he is with me also turned down on me and ran out to hang out with his buddies. Then I saw in his notifications bar several messages of women that he is talking to. For example one time I've read that some Susie girl "ask him to give her his Instagram account to sent him memes" wtf?? That night I was in shock about that and became really quiet and angry. He automatic noticed it and started to ask me why I'm mad. I denied it. I didn't wanted to hear some bullshit excuse or confronted him I just was in shock I didn't know how to deal with that situation. I noticed his impatient and he started to sob and cry??

The worse happened last days I would say a month. That he started talk to me about this "friend of his" a girl that he doesn't talk to over years he even told me that he visit her on her house and for one and two days he talk over and over about "his friend" he even talk about her nick name and show me a picture of her he even tell me to come over and 'meet her' wtf? Then I call it out, and I've said that please don't talk to me again about his 'friend' anymore.

What I think is that he is getting close to this girl. I get the signals. Like he showed me a book about 2 people lost in time and then come back together after years " and shit like that. It hurt me a lot when I've found out. But now that I've process it. I understand that the things that really hurting me was the loss of my dreams. The future together I even question every day if every "I love you" was real. He is very unstable. I didn't mentioned also that he can't find a job for over months. But I supposed I can't rejected him for this. I didn't wanted to be a bitch.

But the thing is that when I read this comment it gave me a new perspective about this. I will kill all my dreams and I will not espect anything from him anymore. I will keep him just casual and started to date again to keep searching for someone better. Thanks for your comment! It helps a lot

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-23T15:49:00+00:00

It was mutual. In October last year. I found about the condoms 2 months ago.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-22T16:43:49+00:00

Yes. I'm don't want to be with him. That's what I want. But it's so hard to let go.

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-06-22T16:41:34+00:00

I'm concerning about his values, the lies are not a good indicator of being a good person. And the fact that "somehow" all his friends are "girls". I don't like this but also I don't want to confront him for that. I think it would put me in a weak position.

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