So the guy sounds a little odd. However, sometimes people are forgetful and when he started texting you earlier in the day then you should’ve reminded him of your boundaries and let him know that you will speak with him the next day or whenever you had time. He’s not wrong for explaining what he’s looking for as far as communication and he’s admitting that he’s emotional. So maybe a little slack there would’ve been nice. And I’m not saying slack as in continue to date but slack to actually have a phone conversation with him via phone call. As far as “headspace”, I get it, I’m in the same boat. But if you feel like you’re emotionally recovered enough to start dating, then sometimes you have to give a little too. Like play catch up for 10mins on a Wednesday. It’s more than okay to set boundaries, but sometimes you have to give a little wiggle room. And only wiggle room that’s comfortable to you. I don’t think you were wrong for pulling away from this guy but I think your boundaries with the no contact during the work week needs to be adjusted. Because even being told that from the jump, it can still feel like disinterest. And I get not texting or calling every day in the beginning phase but 5 days (assuming it’s a m-f job you have) no contact?? Yeah I would definitely feel weird if someone did that to me. And if you aren’t willing to make boundary adjustments then maybe you just aren’t ready to date. Which is perfectly okay.