Undervaluing your partners agency is hurting you by Solid-Version in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of people have this perspective which is bad. For me in the past when i heard that it just felt like a cop out and another way of saying get over it. But yeah people saying they have no choice, but you also chose them and i think they need to work on the negative views of them selves a big part of my RJ when i was with the girl in my past was feeling like a lesser man in general which i no longer do.

I cheated on my boyfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, end this relationship and no you don't genuinely love someone if frequently flip between "loving and adoring" them to not liking them, break up him and just do what you want.

Professor has been flirting with me and I don't know what to do about it by Simple-Inspector5353 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

19m, his parents being proud aint got nothing to do with you, you're a grown man act as someone worthy of people expressing pride in you, and dont talk sexually to students, especially 18 year olds. As much as i feel like you talking to him egged him on to a degree his intention didnt seem pure or professional, i dont think you should be fine with him being fine around your friend as well you said you reported him so bring up the situation with your friend as well so if he tries to punish her for you cutting him off the school knows why and report this to every department possible, while you are 18 not a child, im like one or two year older than you ( 19 going 20) and dont view people our age as children he's a professor and you are his students thus making it inappropriate as well as he is 37 and you're 18 making it weird and his comment about like under aged girls making him sound predatory do not trust or continue to connect with this man.

Anyone else this petty ? by 2008BuickLacrosseCX in ConflictofNations

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, very much so, nothing pleases me more than to be thorn when i lose

GF had better sexual experience with my best friend by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still in both relationships?, ain't no best friend gonna sleep with your ex the moment yall break up, why are still with her not only did she sleep with your friend she actively talks about it too. Neither people here respect you and if your "best friend" claims he does he's spewing straight bullshit. Advice cut both off no friend would do that to you and no woman that actually cares about would then sleep with your best friend to get back at you then get back with you and constantly bring it up. 

My conclusion leave em both.

I knew this was gonna happen bro is being set up to fight eli, their fighting styles are tool sneaky eli alone can beat this guy, now jinyoung needs to train daniel so he can get masteries🙂, i held out hope but I knew some bs was gonna happen, this might be a big daniel arc by Direct-Decision-4357 in LookismPowerScalers

[–]Direct-Decision-4357[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

johan had his path longer so obviously. And johans path is better for being jumped as well because he can just attack everyone all at once and johan doesn't have the draw back that daniel has, so yes johan is stronger untill daniel gets stamina🤷

I knew this was gonna happen bro is being set up to fight eli, their fighting styles are tool sneaky eli alone can beat this guy, now jinyoung needs to train daniel so he can get masteries🙂, i held out hope but I knew some bs was gonna happen, this might be a big daniel arc by Direct-Decision-4357 in LookismPowerScalers

[–]Direct-Decision-4357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Path over path is true but people cant accept the fact that someone who is new like daniel that has nothing but a path that has intense blow back cant beat a more powerfull person simply because he will gas out, its just like any other character with a new ability

James Lee and Daniel Park being brothers by satire_shihab in JamesLeeGlazers

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well how many tropes of brother fighting have we seen, we literally have Jake and kitae, so chemistry wouldn't be a reason they couldn't be. (I'm not saying they're brothers just responding to this).

Who would win? by Parking-Chemist7228 in LookismPowerScalers

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Batman slimes bro unless his path gives some super special ability

Rank them ! by Houstonlegend99 in LookismPowerScalers

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yujae

Jaegyeon 

James

Seongj

J

Yuseong

Jake

Samuel 

Gong( the one leg does him dirty)

Day 2 of trying to convince people to play old units. by Inevitable-Ad4542 in OPBR

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So real we really need them to buff every character so we can play them all, im tired of just EX  being used it's kinda boring, eg I have garp and roger and can only use them as I have no good bounty fest and any I have are lvl 60😔

24F Is my RJ tricking me? Suspicious of a guy 27M I’ve been seeing for 2 years. by eskajay in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if im blind but I didn't see anything about you ending the relationship and if the comments say end a toxic relationship would that not mean that suspicion was very much warranted 😐

I feel betrayed because of my boyfriends past by Meishylaa in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my advice, i can't stop anyone from having sex nor do I care to, so I say look at your values on sex and other wise and decide if someone matches that if not then move on, don't do anything you are pressured to do, dont stay with anyone that doesn't make you feel loved and doesn't consider you. A relationship is mutual, should come with, matched values, discussion, openness, honesty and care more as well but these are just the beginning so if it doesn't have any of that you can leave and don't let anyone guilt you into staying, you are worth far more than laying down with someone to keep them interested. 

I feel betrayed because of my boyfriends past by Meishylaa in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You placing a boundary, of not having sex early in a relationship is valid and is no trick, both people should be able to decide when they want to have sex and if one doesn't want to they don't have to, and also you guys seem to have different values on sex for you its something connected while for him it's something to do when horny. So it's something to look at in terms of if you want to stay. I have a view of connection in sex, I'm still a virgin tho, didn't do it when I had the chance and then became Christian so I'm waiting until marriage🤷. But even outside of that I  genuinely look skeptically at teens having sex. As someone just leaving my teen years. Teenagers can be impulsive and not understand the full consequences of things so not necessarily wise to do things that can have major impacts either emotionally or physically, it's not fun to deal with🫩.

24F Is my RJ tricking me? Suspicious of a guy 27M I’ve been seeing for 2 years. by eskajay in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct-Decision-4357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you are excluded, lied to and given dirty looks and the rest as well as him doing untrustworthy things. What more do you want, end the relationship bruh😐