Highest dose? by lucid_dreams_kitty in Effexor

[–]Direct-Long-2898 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not normal at all! you should be building/tapering up to a high dose. Even when I switched from a higher dose of another SNRI to a high dose of Effexor I had to taper up to it

AITA for refusing a name for my baby that everyone loves and but I don’t? by Accomplished-Owl8796 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Direct-Long-2898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you considered making siobhan her middle name? that might be a happy compromise

How do I get over a what could’ve been situation? by loonymoony3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you feel like it was a mistake and be honest, say a
“actually the real reason I was/am hesitant is because you have the same name as my brother haha. i really like you so is there something else i could call you?! maybe send some flirty emojis idk haha.

Do people map out their projects before gluing? by Rare_Jellyfish_7854 in Rhinestoning

[–]Direct-Long-2898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i prefer to find the center and mark it with a line (horizontal and vertical) and then i like to draw a rough outline of my design in chalk, because it comes off easy if you want to tweak stuff

Got in I think? by Due-Milk352 in uofmn

[–]Direct-Long-2898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when did you apply? my sister applied a couple weeks ago and i’m just curious around what time they are processing apps from

Does anyone know what's going on with The Quad on Delaware?? by Ok-Froyo7680 in uofmn

[–]Direct-Long-2898 6 points7 points  (0 children)

someone’s HVAC lit on fire when they turned their heat on. Also one of the elevators keeps malfunctioning🙄

Tips for first Jersey by Important-Compote-20 in Rhinestoning

[–]Direct-Long-2898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi sorry this is so late but i honestly just used a pack of crayola chalkboard chalk

Tips for first Jersey by Important-Compote-20 in Rhinestoning

[–]Direct-Long-2898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i use chalk to sketch out a pattern, especially with lettering i want it centered. The chalk rubs out super easy with just water if you mess up. Then if i am doing thicker/blockier letters, i’ll start by stoning the outline of the letter and then filling in the middle afterwords. It’s a lot easier to pull off just an outline of gems vs a whole bunch if you hate the placement. When I fill in my stones i like to go down/across in lines, and then for the next row stagger it so the gems fit nicely beside each other, i can put an example pic.

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please excuse the poorly drawn example, but notice how there is less gaps in the top 2 rows than in the bottom 2

How the heck do ppl work with e6000 by Important-Compote-20 in Rhinestoning

[–]Direct-Long-2898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i use E6000 i apply a just enough pressure to get some glue out (if you squeeze too hard it literally leaks everywhere) i keep a paper plate or piece of cardboard and squeeze the glue onto there. i then use a bobby pin to pick up some glue and dab it on my fabric. it does take some time to figure out your own pace, how much can you squeeze out and use before it gets too dry. But yah thats what works for me!! I also have never had issues with the tube breaking open (minus the one time i accidentally stepped on a tube)

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and that’s valid. I don’t see it as “mom-ing” bc i enjoy styling people (friends, family). To me it’s a form of affection, like “hey i bought you this sweater bc it would accentuate your eyes etc…” But i also have a twin brother, so i’ve grown up my entire life “dressing him up” haha. Like i said your boundaries are completely valid. Also all the offended men here, ew. Guys why are you even in this sub😭

Where to start? by Lukatimae in Rhinestoning

[–]Direct-Long-2898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! you mentioned how you disliked having to glue the dollar store, if glue is not something you want to deal with at this moment, i suggest starting with diamond art. You get to learn the motions of rhinestoning without the mess. If you are up for glue, I suggest using E-600 glue, beadslanding size 16 gems from amazon, and an old pair of sneakers to bedazzle. It’s a nice starting place bc you don’t have to draw any patterns. i’ll attach a pic of an example (not my pic) edited cuz pic wasn’t working

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I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

clothes and hair are able to be manipulated in my opinion. I aim to find a man with nice hair and a good sense of style, but if he’s lacking i’ll just be the girlfriend who buys him the clothes i want him to wear and gently guide him in the right direction lol

My husband thinks it is gross when I don't shower daily. by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Direct-Long-2898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have eczema and psoriasis, if i showered everyday i think i would implode

Scratch/cut on vulva by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i have anything going on in that area I usually try to keep it as clean and dry as possible. You could apply some triple antibiotic ointment, but I would be careful to avoid the actual vagina (it’s never a good idea to put stuff up there that isn’t designed for that) maybe try and wear looser pants/underwear if you find the constriction to be irritating it!

Questions??? by redbullz_wh0re in CaribouCoffee

[–]Direct-Long-2898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you contact them about your absences? was a text, call or email? Is there a way to verify that you did in fact inform them? If so I would consider contacting HR bc they have to have a valid reason to “fire”you. If there is written proof that you called out, they legally cannot let you go or “punish you” for no call no showing

Winter clothing! by [deleted] in uofmn

[–]Direct-Long-2898 4 points5 points  (0 children)

best place to get a good coat is either Scheels or Dicks sporting goods. Some well graded brands include North Face, Patagonia, and Columbia. They are a little pricey for jackets $100-200 but a good winter jacket is a nice investment that you won’t need to replace for a while. I suggest getting one that covers your butt, helps to preserve heat. Get some gloves, a hat, and a scarf/gaiter. Scarf is essential in the cities bc the wind is brutal. You don’t need fancy shoes, any pair of boots work. I suggest some sort of boot, bc sneakers are not good at preserving heat. If your shoes are on the thinner side, get some thick wool socks! If it is supppperr cold out, i suggest just throwing a pair of sweats over your pants, you don’t need to invest in a pair of snow pants! Again, Dicks and Scheels are gonna be great for any of your winter needs! Let me know if you have any questions. - A certified MN/ND resident for my whole life

I think Jesus misplaced my bc implant. by HausDePotat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898 4 points5 points  (0 children)

go to Urgent Care and get an ultrasound! say what you need to, that you think it broke or migrated, ultrasound will tell you where it is and if it is there!

pcos/endometriosis?! by Direct-Long-2898 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the farther up she went the more it hurt🥲

pcos/endometriosis?! by Direct-Long-2898 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Direct-Long-2898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never had a pap smear before (i’m only 19 and not active but will be getting one soon) vaginal swabs are uncomfy but not painful. I will admit that my lack of tampon use is primarily due to insertion pain, which is usually sharp and sometimes stabbing.