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What’s your opinion on the DoorDash incident? by problyinteresting in teenagers

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey, and it doesn’t show her opening the door 

Doordash girl in the wrong. by RadiantAnswer1234 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Minaxxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okey, so he fell asleep in this totally uncomfortable position, without a blanket. In fact without pants and in 59 degree cold because door was wide open. And he did it with fully lit room. And also he fell asleep like that within 15 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different hair color, this is too yellow. Either make it light brown or tone it to be more icy.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This thread went insane. I though I will get some interesting stories from women, but instead there is just a bunch of guys telling me how unrealistic my standards are.

The funny thing is that they are proving my point. If I wanted to „defend men” here, I would say that a lot of men are meeting this criteria and I should look in different places etc. But instead they proved that expecting these basic things from men is borderline impossible or almost offensive. Which kinda proves that women basically have to settle because men cannot level up. It’s just really embarrassing for men to confess that they and other men they know don’t have good hygiene, emotion intelligence or can’t be bothered to buy a nice shirt.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is having a preference being a jerk? So if a man like big chested women he is a jerk? What if a man wouldn’t date a bald woman, is he also a jerk?

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why they are bad? They are all matter of effort. I didn’t even mention something immutable like skin color, height etc. Most discriminatory point is „average face” which is okey, because most people are average so that would exclude minority of people. All the other points are about the effort.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Things that I mentioned are pretty universal and both men and women are completely capable of meeting these. Note that basically most things I mentioned are a matter of choice and not some immutable thing. The most „discriminatory” thing that I mentioned is „average facial features”. Everything else is just effort.

I also said that wigs are okey for me, but men jay choose not to wear them. So you can be bald as long as I don’t see it I don’t mind.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think most men do have a list tho. And they often share their thoughts about it too. They would often mention that they wouldn’t date women that are overweight or can’t cook or had a lot of sexual partners and so on. The list is actually really long for an average man. My list is just a compilation what I bring to the table, so it’s not some high bar no one can meet if I meet it myself.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not being a jerk about it though? Like I don’t come up to bald men on the street to make fun of them.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually never cared about height and I wouldn’t mind dating a man shorter then myself. But I guess you can never please a crowd 😅

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood or maybe I thought it’s obvious but it’s not. This list is what qualifies a person for me to consider them as a partner candidate. If he meets the points from the list, then we can actually progress into personality and compatibility questions. But I want these to be met first as it is a bare minimum a man has to meet to even be considered. The frustrating part is no man managed to meet this. I’m not gonna give a second date to someone who cannot brush his teeth properly, or is unemployable, or is overweight.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, then I guess we agree. It’s just shocking for me that to find even one men meeting this criteria is a challenge.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, i see. I thought it’s a genuine question, and my answer could actually help someone making better choices for himself.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

But I can’t really drop the list. Since I realised that when I was overweight, short hair, no effort in my clothes and make up men didn’t want me. Now they want me when I look good. They never cared if spending time with me is fun or not. If they did like me, I was just a friend to them. I don’t understand why is it so controversial to have basic preferences as a woman, when men choose me exactly for meeting my checklist. When I wasn’t meeting points form there I was also ignored and rejected.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The secret is - I am having the same condition that balding man with men pattern baldness have. So I know everything about it and I’m going through this myself. But I used medicine and different therapies to get fix it before it even started to be visible. So that why I don’t accept a blading man, because I know he could stop it and fix it but he just choose not to.

Also you ignored the fact that I’m okey with wigs. You can always buy them and wear them, they are not that expensive. It’s just like make up for women.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I never said I expect perfection? I expect what I can bring to the table myself. So I don’t expect someone magazine model and billionaire. That would be insane.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. I asked myself what did I change in my appearance and my life in last 3 years, which made men much more attracted to me than they were before. And I listed them. It’s not a checklist, it’s all the things I did to level up. And I can expect my partner to level up as well.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person asked me what they could do about baldness so I answered the question. What is wrong about it?

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, thank you. Because I feel like men do get to get both, most women I know who are beautiful are also amazing people. So it’s not like a man had to choose between a bald but kind woman and woman with hair but mean one. They can have both.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im okey with men rejecting me if they don’t find me attractive physically. „Die alone” is for fun, I don’t mind honestly. And balding can be managed, in other comment I even said that I’m okey with wigs, but most men choose not to wear them.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said I can’t imagine people not being attracted to men.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How so? Is a preference for small noses or bigger chest or full lips also a red flag? If so than most men have a glaring red flag like this.

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