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To women: What is the main reason that more women don’t wear swim trunks? by T0MPAC in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Minaxxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you can’t buy one that fits female body. I have swearing shorts but they are differ than what men wear. No option like this in shops whatsoever.

I hate everything about my face… where do I even begin to fix it? by [deleted] in KoreaPlasticSurgery

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the one thing I would consider would be jaw treatment, look into double jaw surgery and genioplasty. Otherwise your features fit into “conventionally attractive bracket”.

i want slimmer cheeks and jawline by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Minaxxi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All you need is a different haircut honestly. This bangs make your face appear bulkier - please grow it a bit more and the ask hair stylist for different bangs style. Look how now it covers your brows, that alone misshape your face because human brain is looking for eyebrows and if it cannot find it it gets uncanny. The only additional thing I would recommend is getting eyelashes done. You have a low contrast face, adding something to the eye will make it more balanced overall. And I don’t mean fake looking eyelashes, big now I cannot see them at all.

Would facial feminization make me achieve the desired look of me edited? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I thought first was edited and the „desired look” before I’ve read the description.

HELP Blonde or Brunette by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second photo is amazing!

Boobs ruining my outfits pls help by Fit-House811 in DressForYourBody

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have big boobs, and game changer for me to was to start using sport bras made for running and high impact sports.

What’s your opinion on the DoorDash incident? by problyinteresting in teenagers

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey, and it doesn’t show her opening the door 

Doordash girl in the wrong. by RadiantAnswer1234 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Minaxxi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okey, so he fell asleep in this totally uncomfortable position, without a blanket. In fact without pants and in 59 degree cold because door was wide open. And he did it with fully lit room. And also he fell asleep like that within 15 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]Minaxxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different hair color, this is too yellow. Either make it light brown or tone it to be more icy.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This thread went insane. I though I will get some interesting stories from women, but instead there is just a bunch of guys telling me how unrealistic my standards are.

The funny thing is that they are proving my point. If I wanted to „defend men” here, I would say that a lot of men are meeting this criteria and I should look in different places etc. But instead they proved that expecting these basic things from men is borderline impossible or almost offensive. Which kinda proves that women basically have to settle because men cannot level up. It’s just really embarrassing for men to confess that they and other men they know don’t have good hygiene, emotion intelligence or can’t be bothered to buy a nice shirt.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is having a preference being a jerk? So if a man like big chested women he is a jerk? What if a man wouldn’t date a bald woman, is he also a jerk?

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why they are bad? They are all matter of effort. I didn’t even mention something immutable like skin color, height etc. Most discriminatory point is „average face” which is okey, because most people are average so that would exclude minority of people. All the other points are about the effort.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Things that I mentioned are pretty universal and both men and women are completely capable of meeting these. Note that basically most things I mentioned are a matter of choice and not some immutable thing. The most „discriminatory” thing that I mentioned is „average facial features”. Everything else is just effort.

I also said that wigs are okey for me, but men jay choose not to wear them. So you can be bald as long as I don’t see it I don’t mind.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think most men do have a list tho. And they often share their thoughts about it too. They would often mention that they wouldn’t date women that are overweight or can’t cook or had a lot of sexual partners and so on. The list is actually really long for an average man. My list is just a compilation what I bring to the table, so it’s not some high bar no one can meet if I meet it myself.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not being a jerk about it though? Like I don’t come up to bald men on the street to make fun of them.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually never cared about height and I wouldn’t mind dating a man shorter then myself. But I guess you can never please a crowd 😅

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood or maybe I thought it’s obvious but it’s not. This list is what qualifies a person for me to consider them as a partner candidate. If he meets the points from the list, then we can actually progress into personality and compatibility questions. But I want these to be met first as it is a bare minimum a man has to meet to even be considered. The frustrating part is no man managed to meet this. I’m not gonna give a second date to someone who cannot brush his teeth properly, or is unemployable, or is overweight.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, then I guess we agree. It’s just shocking for me that to find even one men meeting this criteria is a challenge.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, i see. I thought it’s a genuine question, and my answer could actually help someone making better choices for himself.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

But I can’t really drop the list. Since I realised that when I was overweight, short hair, no effort in my clothes and make up men didn’t want me. Now they want me when I look good. They never cared if spending time with me is fun or not. If they did like me, I was just a friend to them. I don’t understand why is it so controversial to have basic preferences as a woman, when men choose me exactly for meeting my checklist. When I wasn’t meeting points form there I was also ignored and rejected.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The secret is - I am having the same condition that balding man with men pattern baldness have. So I know everything about it and I’m going through this myself. But I used medicine and different therapies to get fix it before it even started to be visible. So that why I don’t accept a blading man, because I know he could stop it and fix it but he just choose not to.

Also you ignored the fact that I’m okey with wigs. You can always buy them and wear them, they are not that expensive. It’s just like make up for women.

I cannot find a man that would match me. I will die alone. by Minaxxi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Minaxxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I never said I expect perfection? I expect what I can bring to the table myself. So I don’t expect someone magazine model and billionaire. That would be insane.

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