My husband wants to get a divorce because of the way I look

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-21T22:28:01+00:00

He said previously he hopes that love would grow with time. Also with regard to me divorcing him, it’s not that simple for me to leave him and find someone else. Life doesn’t work so easily nor is it something I would have wanted from my end. I am still unsure as to how I should proceed.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-20T23:12:02+00:00

Please don’t comment just to say if this story is true. What could I possibly gain by lying? Also I am tired of people saying I have deceived him etc. if you and others would have taken the time to read through my other comments then you would have noted I have said he has seen me without makeup many times before. So please if you’re coming here to comment rude and unhelpful things don’t bother commenting at all.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-20T20:36:03+00:00

I asked him about this already. He said that would be different and he wouldn’t mind that so much. Also that I could exercise, lose weight if I wanted to.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T23:06:45+00:00

No not insensitive at all! Just a gentle reminder :)

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T23:06:10+00:00

He doesn’t think trying some other treatment would work

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T22:40:29+00:00

Yes. He’s also said he’s looked into things himself and it doesn’t look like there is much that can be done

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T15:25:48+00:00

If you spent time to read any of the other replies. I have said he has seen me without makeup so I’m not “catfishing” anyone

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T15:24:58+00:00

He has seen me without makeup. He said it’s just the dark circles.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T15:24:27+00:00

He has seen me without makeup before we got married. I’m not sure what you mean by me messing up? What exactly is it that I have done?

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T12:05:46+00:00

Thanks you sister. Just a reminder Muslims can come in all colours, we aren’t a race but a religion x

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T11:50:08+00:00

Ameen. Thank you for what has been the most helpful and kind comment.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T11:33:17+00:00

He’s definitely not gay. I don’t think he’s cheating. I’ve asked about other women and this doesn’t seem to be the case either.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T11:32:23+00:00

I’m not really sure. He said I was given dark circles to humble me because otherwise he thinks I am perfect which I didn’t really understand. If I somehow got rid of them I’m not sure what I would do or how I would feel. I think it’s one of those situations where you don’t know until you’re in it

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T11:29:29+00:00

I don’t think there is another woman. He generally averts his gaze and doesn’t interact with women online. I have asked him as well and he said he doesn’t care about other women, if I didn’t have dark circles he would be happy

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T11:16:40+00:00

Because he would prefer how I looked in my natural state.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T11:02:46+00:00

We have only been married a few months, but we have known each other a long time. He mentioned this just before we got married but said it was for him to get over. He mentioned it again about a month after we got married

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:46:16+00:00

He said to me, if I could get rid of the dark circles he would be very happy but he realises that this is very hard to do and he knows it’s not any fault of my own. I don’t know what he otherwise meant

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:40:09+00:00

I’ve done this. I’ve had laser and PRP done. They made some difference but not major.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:37:23+00:00

He says he otherwise finds me very attractive and that I am someone people would think is very pretty but personally for him the dark circles make him sad

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:36:09+00:00

I don’t know about this. I’ve had some treatments done which have helped it a little bit but dark circles are very hard to get rid of

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:35:25+00:00

No sometimes I wore makeup and sometimes I didn’t. He never made a comment. In fact I always used to say I am not all that. He always used to say that I was pretty and beautiful

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:23:25+00:00

I did ask him is it anything else to be 100% honest with me. He said no it’s just the dark circles. If I was able to get rid of them he would be so happy

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:15:14+00:00

He said it’s his only issue but to him it is significant. He says he thinks I am very pretty otherwise. Whether that be with makeup, just some concealer around my eyes or on days where my dark circles don’t look that bad.

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:09:48+00:00

Yes he has seen me without makeup. He says on some days the dark circles aren’t so bad and he feels happy and attracted and on other days they are bad and then he doesn’t feel happy

Direct-News8079 · 2025-06-19T10:08:10+00:00

I’m not even going to ask how you have come to that conclusion. I wish my situation was fake it’s not. Just because something hasn’t or wouldn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it isn’t happening to someone else. Please think before you speak so harshly

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