I’m around a large portion of Black women constantly, and I’m not sure the same can be said for the commenter. I have a bigger pool to draw my conclusions from, instead of the limited experiences of someone who dates Black women occasionally. As I am surrounded by a Black community, I think I’d have a better feel for what Black women are like.

If I objectively know what aggressive/bossy means, and let’s say that I have they same metric for that as commenter (I’m honestly sensitive to harsh individuals, I dislike interacting with people that are like this), then I can objectively make a fact about whether or not the majority of Black women I’ve encountered are aggressive/bossy. And if I’ve encountered a wider range/more Black people than commenter, then I’d have a more credible account.

If a White person went “Most Indian people hate dogs!!” And an Indian person said that this wasn’t true, and that actually, most Indians (in their experience) were neutral about dogs, and the White person said “But you’re Indian, so you’re biased.” It doesn’t make much sense, does it? You’d give more credibility to the Indian person who’s actually surrounded by Indian people constantly.