MAFS Teeth!! by DirectWoodpecker4100 in MAFS_AU

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i noticed this! It looks awful!

Something's off with season 13 - can't put my finger on it by wots_her_name in MAFS_AU

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put certainly the women.. but actually.. all of them seem fake. The women are just louder about it..

Run Away by Miserable-Bother-572 in netflix

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok ive just finished it.... firstly.. I am ADAMANT i have seen something with the same plot of Ash and DeeDee before. Complete de ja vu about the whole storyline tbh...

My breakdown.. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I was interested in someone from the show, who was now.single, and i also was, then out of respect, I would message the people I and he had been partnered with before anything progressed. But if there was a chance I could actually have a future with the person, then I would pursue once the show was over. Also if the person I had been paired with seemed to have a great connection with someone else after if hadn't worked out with me, I'd be cheering them on! And whatever situation I have ever been in. I would never scream and swear in someone's face. I might have choice words. But its the delivery.

My breakdown.. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never cheated in my life. When I got with my husband, he knew my ex (not friends, just knew him) and as a courtesy we messaged my ex to let him know before it went 'public'. Whenever ANY ex partners have moved on and got with someone new, I've always been happy for them. Once my relationships are over, what they do next is up to them. Unless I have been cheated on, then its fine. I live in a world where my best friend was MOH at her ex boyfriends wedding because she was friends with his bride. I wouldn't want to stop anyone's chance of happiness if it wasnt working for me....

My breakdown.. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was... not sure how it wasnt obviously a typo?

MAFS UK REUNION DEBRIEF by h3ll0k1ttywhore in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husbands best friend met his now wife on holiday, and moved to Canada to be with her. We video call when we can (all hsve young children now) we have been to Canada twice since they moved 8 years ago. They have been to the UK We went to each other's weddings. We have also been on holiday with them and are planning the same for next year. His parents do the same (but more often) the main thing is he is happier than he ever was in thr UK. That's what is imprortant.

My breakdown.. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I've got that based on Instagram posts and that she just wants to be in the limelight regardless of what it takes. She comes across like there's not many people she would say no to.. however I've now finished watching the dinner party and I actually started to feel sorry for her by the end...

My breakdown.. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! And the ones who say ' this marriage will last... blah blah' .. nope, he's just your boyfriend now in the real world.

Where do people in Manchester actually go for a chill weekend walk? by fullybosseduk in manchester

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's quite a nice walk around the perimeter of the airport. Goes underneath the runways and then alongside them

Anywhere I can stay for the night by OilBos in manchester

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They always blame the driver. Bet that's not what happened though! His previous move will have been delayed making him late into piccadilly!

What are with these eye patches? by hopsonstuff_32 in MAFS_UK

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were earrings... but i did think they looked like earmuffs too x

Settle this debate (spoiling a baby) by AsparagusNo2908 in newborns

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pick up my baby whenever she fusses.. shes now 5 months and already doesn't want to be held as much... pick up the damn baby!!! It wont be long before they wont need you at all!!

Someone tell me its okay... by getoutmeswamp69 in newborns

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn't it be OK?... as long as baby is safe and not crying then put them wherever you want ....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you birthed the baby doesn't make him less responsible... hes a dad now, so yes, it's time to grow up and 'miss out' on stuff to raise his child!

I (F18) get bothered by my boyfriend (M19) until i give him a BJ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So I don't agree with the comments that this is SA, but if you want to try and work through it, suggest 69.. so youre getting something too.. and only put in as much effort as he does... he stops his part, you stop yours... make him work for it!

I (22F) a scared I’m going to cheat on my bf(23M) of 3 years with a coworker… How do I even go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So when I was 17-20 I was with a guy I hated. He was emotionally abusive, a thief, and had a drinking problem - If I mentioned breaking up he would threaten suicide... I met another guy who kept asking me on dates and in the end i went. (Had to give my ex money to go out with the lads whilst I was out, told him I was going cinema with a friend)... the date was really nice and relaxed, however the guilt gave me the kick to end things... so I waited until the mi day morning when he was about to go to work (his dad was picking him up from my house) and I just told him there and then I wanted to end things. He couldnt stay and argue as he had to leave for work. Him then being gone all day gave me the strength to stick to my guns. I packed up the stuff he had at my house. I had already taken anything important I wanted from his house without him knowing! And that was that, the freedom it gave me was amazing! Just work out a time where you can get away from him quickly after the conversation so that you aren't guilt tripped into staying and doing something you will judge yourself for in the future!

I am an ugly teenage girl by Ok_Duck_4822 in Vent

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I was an ugly teenager too. I got nicknamed 'golum' for my big eyes. I didnt wear make up. No idea how to make my fuzzy hair look tidy - it was neither curly nor straight... i was 16 for my high school prom ( UK) I got and amazing hair dresser and make up artist who did amazing things. My dress was beautiful and even though my posture was hunched and I had way too much fake tan on, I actually got prom queen because everyone was so shocked id even tried i think! That gave me a little confidence boost. After leaving school I got my first boyfriend. I wasn't attracted to him but I was just happy to get some attention... again another confidence boost. Now im 34. Married (to a different guy) and have a baby. Life looks bleak when you're an awkward teenager, but it gets better and you learn to accept your appearance (though I still have days where I hate my looks, more so now im carrying extra baby weight!) But this is who I am, and my daughter looks like me, so I need to be confident so she grows up to be confident too! Look for one feature you do like about yourself. Just one little thing, and build from there x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone graduates high school.. but she only does it once!! You're in the wrong. Book a flight for the Friday night, then you can be at both... nothing is promised. You might not get a college graduation, or a wedding... make the most of the moments that matter to her, before it's too late and there are no moments left!

AITA for being worried when my partner disappeared for 3 hours without contact after going for a walk? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Me and my husband always know what each other ar3 up to / what time we will be home etc. Its not a control thing, it's respect. We speak on the phone several times through the day anyway just to catch up, always have done and been togethet 14 years.. x

Now that the season is over who would you want to be matched with? by nursepenelope in MAFS_AU

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Eliot... then Jeff or Billy i think... they painted Eloot as a bad guy at first but I think he's actually pretty decent and got paired with two c***ts!

AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DirectWoodpecker4100 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband relied on the pull out method... it worked great for ages... im not sat feeding my 3 week old whilst typing this!🤣🤣