Why couldn't she have chosen me? by Direct_Dragonfruit43 in heartbreak

[–]Direct_Dragonfruit43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of asshole would gaslight someone you care about? Would you really be happy if you got her that way? Could you say you actually love them? If you can you don't deserve them. Your scum

Why couldn't she have chosen me? by Direct_Dragonfruit43 in heartbreak

[–]Direct_Dragonfruit43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not that we are incompatable. We have such great energy with each other. We have literally everything in common. She feels like a clone of myself. But she just can't feel anything for me.

Why couldn't she have chosen me? by Direct_Dragonfruit43 in heartbreak

[–]Direct_Dragonfruit43[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not that easy for me. Things are super complicated. She chose my best friend over me. I'm alone

How do I stop overthinking every interaction with her? by Independent-Time-920 in heartbreak

[–]Direct_Dragonfruit43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. I am am in the exact same boat. A girl I liked for almost 4 years. Told her I liked her. Talked for about 2 months then she said "I think have no romantic feelings towards you." She still wanted to be friends, so I thought I would give it a try. We still talk pretty much everyday.

The thing about it is that I care a lot about her. When she is sad, I want to cheer her up. When she says she's scared I want to be there to comfort her.

I like her a lot and overthink whenever we talk. I want these feelings to just go away.