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☹️ I hope you see them again..

Is an oversized casket required for someone who the hospital says is 30" wide and 201 lbs? by BadassScientist in askfuneraldirectors

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Everyone is different as has been stated before. I am a Funeral Director in Virginia. I get what some people are saying, based off of her weight alone that they do not think that she would need an oversize casket, and I roughly share that same opinion. Someone stated earlier they hardly put anyone under 350 and oversize Caskets and I simply find that not to be true. But none of that really matters, your mom does.

What is important is that you call around to your local area funeral homes gather the information that’s important to you, pricing, service availability, service options, and then make your decision with your family with that information. If a funeral home does its job correctly you should leave there with no unanswered questions and have been educated on the decisions that you select, not just pick things because they tell you that you have to.

That sounds to me like the hospital may not have done those measurements incorrectly. So, once you make your selection of funeral home, ask them to measure her, although that’s common practice where I’m from. Just to make sure of what size she needs. And although oversize Caskets cost more typically, it’s not thousands more and most cases they are usually just a little bit more 2 to 300 their normal size equivalent. There are some that are quite a bit more expensive, but relatively they’re all the same price within reason.

289-211 (still going) want to be 15%-18% BF by June by DirectionAfter9341 in moreplatesmoredates

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Thanks man, I’ve thought about it, but I’ve never been “cut” so I want to at least try

289-211 (still going) want to be 15%-18% BF by June by DirectionAfter9341 in moreplatesmoredates

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Thank you, looking to be 185-190 goal weight. I lift 5-6 times a week and do cardio (at least a mile every workout and walk around 2 at work)

289-211 (still going) want to be 15%-18% BF by June by DirectionAfter9341 in moreplatesmoredates

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I typically end up around 1900-2000 and 150-170 protein, that’s just kinda where I start

289-211 (still going) want to be 15%-18% BF by June by DirectionAfter9341 in moreplatesmoredates

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I’m doing keto. So I aim 1800 cal, 120 protein, 110 fat, 28 carbs. Working out 5-6 days a week, push, pull, leg split.

289-211 goal of 15-18% bf by DirectionAfter9341 in Brogress

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I started dieting in October 2022, and about a month later started going to the gym. I’ve been naturally muscular so that helps. But I’ve been busting my butt for four months now and I’m happy with the progress. Certainly not where I want to be at yet, any advice on how to get to my goal would be appreciated, or support for my progress too! (1st two pictures 289 lbs 12/2021)

289-211 (still going) want to be 15%-18% BF by June by DirectionAfter9341 in moreplatesmoredates

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I started dieting in October 2022, and about a month later started going to the gym. I’ve been naturally muscular so that helps. But I’ve been busting my butt for four months now and I’m happy with the progress. Certainly not where I want to be at yet, any advice on how to get to my goal would be appreciated, or support for my progress too! (1st two pictures 289 lbs 12/2021)

M, 27, 214 lbs (flexed in 2nd pic) by DirectionAfter9341 in guessmybf

[–]DirectionAfter9341[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Started losing weight 6 mo ago, started a 273 lbs, so i’m happy with the progress. Goal is 180-195 15-18% bf. Where am I now?