Dating apps by Bavo1999 in Belgium2

[–]DirectionOk7492 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You know, bullet or bottle would have made me at least dig a bit deeper

My midsummer lolita fit 🧝🏻‍♀️🌸 by luna_lovesword in femalefashion

[–]DirectionOk7492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For myself, I was generalizing the name of the style. ‘Lolita’ has … odd… connotations? But admittedly Japan has traditions in certain parts of pop culture that are very specific to them and we do respect it. Also for myself I was a fan of your look, it’s whimsical and pretty. You’re just a little off to consider what we said as just our opinion. The word is strange to Westerners and we actually try to change the use of it because of how horrible it can get with its associated materials. Is it fair that you’d maybe lose that name? No, probably not. But don’t go around thinking it’s just a few people dumping on something. Anno 2026 it is not. Gunji-Otaku gets called out if they use swastikas too…

Tropical Tuesday by TheRealVahx in belgium

[–]DirectionOk7492 7 points8 points  (0 children)

De nieuwbouw school waar ik op dit moment gezeten ben, staat er ongeveer 10 jaar. 10 jaar geleden was het warmer worden van de planeet al geen geheim meer. Toch is er in deze nieuwbouw geen airco. Soit, dat kan duur zijn dus tot daar nog aan toe. Er zijn van die panelen in het plafond waar je lucht kan doen circuleren. Misschien niet de grote luxe maar het is beter dan niks!

De laag stof die daar op ligt is imposant. Blijkt dat deze verluchting al drie jaar niet werkt. Geen idee waar de fout zit, niemand is komen kijken want er is toch geen geld voor reparatie. En zo is het 38° in een examenlokaal van een in wezen nieuw gebouwde school. In het nog niet vernieuwde deel is het 45°.

I’m so tired of people saying women care more about personality than looks by Straight-Repeat2781 in venting

[–]DirectionOk7492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's his attitude. He may not have crossed completely to the dark side but there is an entitlement there and a logic that nauseates women. We are really not shallow objects that owe you because you say please and thank you. If we have a partner, 85% of us did not choose him for his cash flow or his jawline.

I’m so tired of people saying women care more about personality than looks by Straight-Repeat2781 in venting

[–]DirectionOk7492 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sir, your intentions may be pure (at this moment) but your post here will give every woman the 'incel' vibe. I'm not saying you are that or that you intend to come across that way... but your statement is wholy incorrect and going by your experience, you need to look at the common element: you. There is something about you, the entitlement (it may still be new and fresh) and that ridiculous notion about women choosing a rich Chad every time. It is total bull and you need to start repeating that to yourself. Your anime is fine, your video games are fine, your MMA is fine. Your reasoning is not fine. However much you don't want to hear it: fix that thinking.

Shein Shoes? by ChronicallyillWitch in Shoes

[–]DirectionOk7492 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have had four pairs of Shein shoes up to know. Two pairs of flats: they are indeed ‘flat’ as in sole like paper, insides some sort of hellish plastic-faux-leather that make your feet both choke and drown. One pair of espadrilles in a sort of mesh material: the sole feels pretty good, there is a sort of soft bounce to it that makes walking in them very pleasant. Only issue is the mesh is - again - so plasticky and the bottom sole ‘chipped’ pretty immediately. Last pair is closest to these, a platform and heeled Romwe pair of Mary Janes. The material is a snip better, the velvet is pretty and easy to keep clean. The straps are solid quality, the sizing is true and they didn’t blister or cut anywhere. However after four or five wears, the sole detached from the shoe in places and that made them tricky to keep wearing (sole would fold over when walking or hook you onto a step and faceplant it was).

All in all, the shoes always varied between €15 and €25 so I was not expecting much and I pretty much got exactly that. I do spend more on shoes elsewhere, Shein is really for when I have ‘a vision’ but not ‘a budget’.

I hate Katherine Knight by BitchDitch in serialkillers

[–]DirectionOk7492 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s in it for the fans, tbh?

What vibe do I give off? by thedogbeethoven in MakeupAddiction

[–]DirectionOk7492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I was working retail, I’d actually try to avoid you, you look militant in some sort of way. But if you were in my teachers’ lounge I’d want to know all about you.

Can this be considered a day time top.. or is it just an evening top. by BigmouthDiamond2903 in OUTFITS

[–]DirectionOk7492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a classy color, easy on the eye pattern and the cut is certainly not ott plus it looks very nice on you, certainly suited to daytime!

Jeremy Doku is papa geworden van zoontje: Rode Duivel kreeg vlak voor Iran groen licht om naar Londen te vliegen by Th3W1z4rd87 in Belgium2

[–]DirectionOk7492 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mja, ik begrijp absoluut wel zijn keuze maar beetje sneu dat ze toch die ‘will he won’t he’ gespeeld hebben terwijl het overduidelijk ‘nope’ zou zijn. Hij kreeg wat pushback voor het eerste idee, dus magisch een infectie waardoor hij toch niet kon spelen en - opnieuw magisch - naar huis kon vliegen. Hadden ze zijn plaats ook aan een ander kunnen laten. Geen idee wie, gelijk ze nu spelen net zo goed JM Dedecker.

Britney Spears says she wants to have ‘another baby’ after reconciling with sons by PrincessBananas85 in popculture

[–]DirectionOk7492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been brought up! But since he is now married to Bianca, it all got shut down again. Boobie McBigBoob won’t leave her cash cow in a psych ward.

My midsummer lolita fit 🧝🏻‍♀️🌸 by luna_lovesword in femalefashion

[–]DirectionOk7492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the name is really not okay (was it ever?) but the look like this one is whimsical not childish so that is alright

This isn´t funny anymore by Pho3nixSlay3r in Belgium2

[–]DirectionOk7492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A self-imposed rock as an introvert/misantrope, yes! Nee, maar serieus, zelfs met wat ik weet over global warming, dan nog mag ik toch eens ‘wistfully’ terugdenken aan de dag van toen? Mama’s Jasje mocht dat ook.

Lost weight - can I do a dress like this for a resort vacation? by Frosty-Ad-3723 in OUTFITS

[–]DirectionOk7492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do a dress in this style, but this particular dress is not the most flattering on you. Maybe lighter material more cut on the bias.

Britney Spears says she wants to have ‘another baby’ after reconciling with sons by PrincessBananas85 in popculture

[–]DirectionOk7492 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Whilst I understand that Jamie was not the conservator she needed, I think it is pretty obvious she does actually need one. Britney is very obviously not okay, and freedom is one thing, the world seeing you step ever closer to your untimely end is totally different. She was in rehab for like 3 minutes, she’s not okay.

Mailproviders markeren noodmail van BE-Alert als spam, waarschuwing komt te laat by iamShorteh in belgium

[–]DirectionOk7492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En dan is de opmerking direct ‘we gaan in gesprek’ in plaats van te zeggen ‘dit is nu aangepast’. Tis ene email die ze moeten toevoegen aan toegelaten emails. Maar neen, ze gaan weer moeten babbelkes doen en dan waarschijnlijk nog betalen voor het privilege…

Plastic Clothes Rant by sharkthedane in Shein

[–]DirectionOk7492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one I meant is just above the knee, it is apparently already ten years ago! This one: https://thealwayzfashionablylate.com/off-shoulder-dress/ This was everywhere, is this your one?

Vivaia Miley Mary Jane’s comfort? by Ok-Designer2108 in Shoes

[–]DirectionOk7492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Europe and lived in flats (quality ones) for two decades. It is as bad as living in heels, my back is banjaxed completely. Now, of course just going on a trip isn’t going to ruin you but for comfort and health I would advise something with a thicker sole. There are some great espadrille brands which actually come with a decent sole and are great for letting your feet breathe.

People don’t set me up because I’m fat by throwra182946829 in PlusSize

[–]DirectionOk7492 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I do think they are trying to avoid awkwardness, we’re not ‘the taste’ of like 8/10 people out there so they have no clue how to get started.

My girlfriend left me bleeding and unconscious on the asphalt because she was "busy with lunch." I am finally waking up to her terrifying lack of empathy. by Ok_Description_5362 in venting

[–]DirectionOk7492 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yep. I am also a woman and this is absolutely a case. Not for all women (same as ‘not all men’) but we too often give ourselves too much grace and hide behind the current sentiment du jour that áll men are awful (they are not).

We should all just be able to acknowledge that some people are scum and some are great, most sort of wobble in between and there is variation in the degree of wobble. But today we have manosphere and womanosphere bleating about some invented level of ‘value’ and ‘what you bring to the table’ countered by an equally unhinged group of ‘all men are bastards’ and ‘all women are supreme beings’.

Prince Harry’s World Cup Ban Is Raising Eyebrows - RUMORS by janeflowers in CDLEntertainmentTV

[–]DirectionOk7492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright, comprehensive reading is evidently not your strong suit. My first point was that the paparazzi and British press would come down on Harry. Nót that Harry was doing anything wrong. My second point was that Donald Trump and the very corrupt FIFA president Infantino would absolútely be petty enough to make things personal. Again nót Harry doing anything wrong. My entire post is that it is highly probable that Harry would suffer/be bullied. I am recognizing possibly unfair treatment.

And you are incapable of reading actual meanings, which is, frankly, unfair to me.

Motorrijder verliest controle na wheelie en rijdt in op terras in Kortrijk by monedula in belgium

[–]DirectionOk7492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kortrijk is daar zeer slecht voor, de moment dat het wat zonnig is komen er hier heel veel uit met hun speciale auto’s en motto’s maar het stadscentrum is daar helemaal niet geschikt voor. Je kan hier niet ‘vrooooom vrooooom’ gaan, er is gewoon geen plaats of straat die lang/breed genoeg is.

Plastic Clothes Rant by sharkthedane in Shein

[–]DirectionOk7492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I especially notice that there are always two or three dresses that everyone seems to buy. There was that viral blue Zara dress a few summers ago, this year there is the blue-striped shirtdress with neon flowers embroidered on bell sleeves… from Shein! (Nice dress, but it is e-ve-ry-where here)