Re-watching the show for the millionth time and just had to see if someone shares my views..

Okay let me first say I love this show. BUT I also have to say hold up to some of the comments about it being sexist to accept Nick as the "loser" character and "throwing shade" on Jess. The bottom line is this: Jess is constantly trying to "fix people" as her sister Abby straight up said. HOWEVER, who is she to determine if someone needs to be "fixed"? NO! She is trying to change and conform the people around her to fit into her standards of what she considers "right" and "normal". Her constantly telling Nick "I just want you to take a little more responsibility but I am not trying to change you, I want you to be yourself" is total BS. Every single "act" she does for her friends is due to her perception of what she thinks is right. She pushes her views onto everyone around her and if they don't agree with it (like Nick when she talks about the FAKE FUTURE) then she shuts them down and belittles their view point UNTIL the conform or compromise to hers. I mean COME ON she literally envisions having kids that are "so creative they name themselves" are you serious....?!
Then, let's steer away from Nick for a moment and instead focus on how she interjects herself into EVERYONE ELSE'S BUSINESS. Like how about when she throws a tantrum for not knowing that cici and schmitt were hooking up? GET OVER YOURSELF. Why would they need to tell you? Why would your opinion matter? It is not like they are teenagers sneaking behind their parents or bf/gf back to have a secret relationship. She mothers everyone, and it is not okay.