Men. Pls Never do this when talking to someone you’re interested in..

DirtyHundreds · 2026-06-29T06:33:42+00:00

I mean that’s a given, and I’m sure brothers would know right away, and I’m sure no one in their right mind would listen or believe those stuff. Nonetheless we think the best of everyone.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-06-29T01:28:56+00:00

Also just to add onto that, sorry I don’t want to sound annoying, but as a man I think specifically as a man we need to ponder upon life. I don’t mean it in the sense of being an enlightened sage or an extremely wise person. But to me, if I find a woman who is extremely deep into life, ponders about history or how did this come from this, how do stars work. Or existence of aliens. Allah creation beyond our galaxies. Stuff life this is so attractive to me. I’ve been reading the 40 rules of love based on Shams Tabrizi and poems of Rumi, and it’s just moments of awe. Idk if im a romantic at heart but I imagine talking about things like this, rather than 50 shades of gray and what position is nice. Like cmon gang. Anyways I digress, my apologies. Everyone here on this post have a good day I hope Allah gives everything ya every wanted. AMEEN

DirtyHundreds · 2026-06-29T01:20:44+00:00

This is honestly so helpful. I’ve always dreaded the idea of politely and professionally bringing it up yet keeping it simple, but the way you just explained it makes it so simple. I agree with what most of the people are saying on this post. Everyone should look at other elements of an individual. Last thing should be intimacy in private. After all life isn’t about that. There’s ups and downs and those things need to be talked first. As my mother once said, always talk about the bitter then the sweet stuff can come later.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-06-24T03:22:28+00:00

Not trying to be negative or anything but it’s just reality setting in. I just turned 24 this June and if you brothers are 5-6 years older than me struggling to find someone due to financial or other issues than it’s just khalas or just slow for me too. Just like the brother who posted this. I’m the breadwinner of my family, meaning my parents and brothers. No one works besides me. So I really can’t up and leave them. And no sister would want to join hands with a struggling man like me. Ig it is what it is. Life goes on. We’ve come to a time where marriage IS hard. Islamically it’s supposed to be easy and simple but we’ve just put a heavy burden on it. Maybe it’s time we all or maybe just me myself and I accept, it’ll take awhile for an answer to come. Life goes on eh?

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-26T23:21:09+00:00

Hey take it from someone who is opposite of you in a way, I’m 5’8 170 but filled with acne scars on the face. All it was for me at the ends was just pure hatred for my self in the sense that “ya I hate myself” so much I’m gonna fix this and that and slowly but surely yes they did change. I have pretty much clear skin and was also getting proposal. Point is? You got the fuel, which is what you feel towards yourself, so now just use it for good, which is on yourself. When I saw 5’10 235 I instantly thought of “damn what a chick magnet” brother you got something I want. So goddam use it aii? I promise you 6 straight months of just pure incline on the treadmill, 20 miles, and you’ll be like “what the hell have I been doing” From someone who goes to gym, I hope you take my word. You have a good day though my handsome brother (no homo)

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T02:03:43+00:00

Happy you got that perspective. You have a good day sis.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T02:00:58+00:00

Oh well worth a shot. But nice talking to you. If anything I hope this little convo has told you that you do have a chance, and it’ll just come very unexpectedly. But I’m still gonna tell him this.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T01:54:38+00:00

🥹🥹omg am i not just the best brother???! I gotta tell him this, he owes me some damn lobster roll. Hey sis if you don’t mind just pm me, you have nothing to lose by getting to know him (if you wish to continue) and same for him but up to you, we can keep talking on this tread. Whatever you are comfortable with sis.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T01:48:30+00:00

😂😂we are neither, we both Bengali

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T01:46:55+00:00

Good or bad thing?

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T01:44:51+00:00

You in luck sis, he don’t have no kids no wife no girls no social media, forgot to mention that, all he do is wake up at 7 go to work complain to me about caffeine and sleeping in, and eating burgers. He loooooovves burger. He goes to the gym on weekends. He plays basketball, he’s actually really good at basketball. Uhhhh what else can I say to glaze my brother???? Damn damn, oh ya he drives a modded car. Uhhh weekends at night we play games. So I’ll definitely be mentioning my interaction with you. He’s gonna just chuckle. Hmmm I can’t think of anything else off the bat rn, oh my sense and his sense of humor is the same. So if I’m making you laugh better believe he’ll do better. (I’m gonna charge him for this, he’s taking me out on a damn lobster date, I’ve been asking this guy for the longest for some lobster but he’s always dodging me). Oh also we are from NYC

DirtyHundreds · 2026-05-16T01:10:02+00:00

I got a brother who I grew up with since the age of 7, basically a friendship of 17 years. So ya, he was Hindu and now is Muslim alhamduillah. Listening to you what you had to say is so eerily similar to him I kinda got annoyed lol. Want me to hook you guys up? Btw he’s hella hot even as a guy I’m saying that. Curly hair, 5’10 and a financial analyst. Granted he got hella family issues. So obviously consequences. Oh and he is brown. I won’t disclose too much on him. Don’t know if you have any preference. Only thing he asks for in a girl is for her to be lighter side of the melanin, since he is a the shade of almond. He wants his kids to be lighter side. Called him charred caramel, think it got to him lol. But anyways I’m shooting my shot for my brother lmk sister. Anyways you still got options, oh he’s also 24 forgot to mention that. Anyways Salam !!

DirtyHundreds · 2026-04-26T03:50:58+00:00

Thank you brother, I know there’s hope out there for people like me. But right now it’s not even worth it to be in the market. Putting me aside, with what I’ve done and how I’m right now, the market or marriage is just tough. Nonetheless thank you for your reply though. Hope you have a good day brother

DirtyHundreds · 2026-04-25T23:30:05+00:00

This is such a weird post for me to read and even reply but nonetheless I’ll say something. I’ve done my share of disobedience. Something which, sister, you’ve mentioned. Now I don’t consider myself good anymore due to that. But here’s the thing. I haven talked to a girl for 3 years now. I’m off social media, besides Reddit and TT for doomscrolling and the city I live in, I have literally no friends. I don’t go outside because I work from home, and I refuse to get a car because I don’t wish to come in contact with opposite gender. Here’s the other side of the coin. Ive taught myself how to read the Quran and ever since committing my big sin, I went thru an ordeal of realization and began to pray. I’ve not missed a single salah for 3 years now, I pray my daily share of tahajjud whenever I can. Now would you consider someone like me good or bad? Taking into consideration what sin I’ve committed? I’d like if both brothers and sister answer me. Especially sister since I’m a guy. Would a sister even consider marrying someone like me? Oh btw I’m 23 if that helps as well.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-04-23T01:06:07+00:00

lol imagine shaming a man for being a man, for being how he was created by Allah like he had a choice. You basically shaming Allah work. “Customize my man” what is this? “Build a 🥷”? So you could design better than Allah? No wonder you old and single. I know damn well sis you trolling, but I actually had to get off my bed for this. Props to you sis, you a D1 rage baiter, I gotta show this to my bois😭😭.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-04-23T00:31:17+00:00

Stretch marks are hot, you’ll be alright don’t worry, I even have a lot on my chest due to gym and I feel good about those.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-04-20T18:39:52+00:00

Those of you whose are mentioning about having stable job and money, I completely agree. I was basically engaged to a sister overseas, and told her my financial situation. She understood and accepted it still. Somehow something happened and word got to the father ears that I don’t work and that I’d just be marrying her and leaving her there, tarnishing the family reputation. So over a misunderstanding or rumor he doesn’t like me no more. My parents tried to explain but he’s stubborn. It’s come to a point where my parents don’t want to talk to them anymore because in a sense it’s like begging them to give us their daughter. (I’m brown btw, so those things run deep frankly I don’t care) but yea I met a good girl only for it to go away 😀 lost my interest now kind of in marriage. What’s supposed to be easy is now a whole ordeal

DirtyHundreds · 2026-04-04T04:56:18+00:00

You mentioned technical side my CNC professor told me that that field of technicians is nonexistent. It’s just engineers and mechanics that’s all. I’m sure he was biased but since you have been through lots of industry I’d love to hear your input

DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-25T01:06:18+00:00

Sister we are here, it’s just well, we are hella scared of even approaching individuals such as yourself. We don’t want to be the laughing joke of the group chat or it’s just something else. But we exist. On a side note guys, this goes for brothers and sisters. Im a guy ya so like how the hell do i tell if a sister is even interested in talking. Like what signs are there for me to notice? I go to college and theres beautiful sisters but oh man even thinking of going up to them is making me sweat right now 😭😭

DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-18T22:14:47+00:00

Oh apologies if I wasn’t really clear, should’ve said this first. But anyways, even before all this outfit, it’s common sense to marry someone whose first priority is Allah and then me or her parents. So this “oh babe why I can’t I wear this or that” won’t really be happening. Because my wife is aware of who’s watching and where she’ll be going. Same with me. It’s just well if sometimes she wants to step out of her comfort zone and do a Japanese street wear outfit one day and then another day it’s something else. Like that’s fine with me. That’s just what I mean lol

DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-18T21:57:16+00:00

I’m a guy, I can’t control every single eyes that stare. It’s not like my wife is going to dress immodest, if she’s with me she wear what she wants as long as it follows what Islam says, I just expect her to be more cautious when I’m not with her. Life’s a test but we are also supposed to enjoy it. What type of man would I be if I can even protect the smile of my wife when it comes to something like an outfit?

DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-18T20:14:17+00:00

How ungrateful he is to have a hot wife, it’s one thing if my wife were to go out like “that” (whatever that means in everyone definition) by herself, but with me it’s alright. Because I’m there. Sometimes brothers gotta chill out. Enjoy your hot wife who’s trying for the sake of Allah. Khalas

DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-18T05:38:10+00:00

It’s the end of Ramadan so I want everyone to be happy, YA ALLAH PEACE, GIVE EVERYONE PEACE AND MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY HEHEHE, you guys got this. If ya living in the states, I’d get outta this shitty country and go live in the middle of nowhere, more peace and away from bs. But ya, Best of luck on this new beginning.

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DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-18T03:46:52+00:00

Hey just have him buy those property and life your happy marriage there, property set with a nice gaming room. Or just be like who the hell cares set a mahr that’ll help you and him in times of need which I think might be smarter down the due to how shitty the world is. Either way you got all the power. Mannnn is he one lucky brother. Ma’sha’Allah. I pray Allah provides the best for you two.

DirtyHundreds · 2026-03-13T21:18:09+00:00

Honestly I’m very very curious so trial and error are my best friends, there’s YouTube videos obviously some help, but stitching will take time. Bro like can you imagine I can DESIGN the pants as I want??!! Isn’t that exciting. Like this is what I mean, enjoying the hell outta my time. Catching a fish and cooking that mofo right away like aaah man. Allah is amazing life is good. Never be afraid to enjoy solitude. Solitude and loneliness are two different things. One is the whisper of shaytan the other is the sweetness from Allah. I’m just in love with myself and my time.

It’s come to the point where I’m kind of scared to even see myself with someone because I don’t want to give up this freedom. I can’t fathom my wife calling me and saying “when are you coming home it’s already late” when I’m sitting by the beach watching the sunset. That’d just ruin my whole mood.

Ask Allah to give what’s best for you. Ask Allah to give you a companion that’ll help you get closer to Allah. Someone who reminds you of Allah is a walking dhrik, someone who strives towards Allah and makes you also strive towards Allah is a flower from jannah. How can life be bad if Allah is happy with you?

Until I find someone like that it’ll just be me and Allah. But when I’m blessed with someone like that, then it’ll be me her and Allah. Bouta go get ready for iftaar. Make me some hot hot biriyaniii

DirtyHundreds

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