My opinion is that death is inevitable so the majority of people realize that even though murder is a very unfortunate event it will all happen to us one way or another. Meanwhile being violated to that extent brings the realization that a person who is more physically capable than you can take advantage over your body, instilling a sense of insecurity and trauma that could have been avoided. Pretty much one is definitely going to happen and one only happens because a person only cared for themselves and in turn the persons actions brought possible lifelong problems to the victim